257: The Limiting Belief That Is Plaguing The Spiritual Community with Sahara Rose

Namaste, it's Sahara Rose. And welcome back to the Highest Self podcast. A place where we discuss what makes you your soul's highest evolvement. Oh my Goddess Sister Queen, I am so excited to share with you that Rose Gold Goddesses is officially open are accepting new members for the Most High vibe community on the interwebs and in real life as well. What Rose Gold Goddesses is is your sacred sisterhood collective. We have our very own app with all types of content to support you on your spiritual journey. From all of my master classes, I upload content specifically for Rose Gold Goddesses. From manifestation to launching a podcast to writing a book and everything in between to support you on your journey of becoming your high. There are thousands of like minded women who are there to connect with you. Whether you want to meet up for a cup of ceremonial cacao or talk about your Dharma or whatever it is that you need support with at this time, Rose Gold Goddesses has got you. 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So you have this finite amount of energy. So you have to be very wise on how you use this energy. And I think that this is a massive limiting belief. I see this as a common theory in the modern spiritual movement that, you know, you don't want to use your energy on too many things and just conserve your energy. And it makes us seem fragile when we are not. And what it actually causes us to do is to prevent ourselves from fully stepping into our power. We are so afraid of burning ourselves out and using all of this energy that most people out there are actually nowhere near the amount of energy and output and creation that they can create. You know, there are a small pool of people who are, like, constantly doing and constantly making, and they're creating every moment of the day. Day. That. Yes, I think it is important medicine for them to relax. And I think it's important medicine for all of us to relax and be wise as well. And how we are using our energy, but it is not finite. In fact, it is limitless. And when we are in alignment with our dharma, our soul's purpose, we are almost like tapped into the sun. And this sun does not have, you know, a finite amount of energy. I can only. I can only glow on these hours of the days and these. These other ones. Oh, God, I have my boundaries in place, and I can't glow anymore. Especially if you're shadowy. I can't go over there. It's gonna just ruin my vibe. We are tapped into the sun. We are the sun in human expression. Therefore, when you are living in alignment with your truth, there is endless amount of energy that is flowing through you. You are not forcing. You are not hitting against a wall. If you are at that point where you're hitting against a wall, where you do not want to be doing that thing, and you're forcing yourself, forcing yourself, forcing yourself, you to then take a break and rethink why you are even doing this in the first place. And if it's a limiting belief or if it's something that's not in alignment with your dharma, but creation, the true essence of being in total alignment with what you Are doing is the highest form of meditation. As I was writing my book Discover your Dharma, I shared about how a lot of people like today are saying you're a human being, not a human doing. And while I do agree that most many humans have not fully tapped into their being, they have not been in their literal being, physical vessel, and embodied themselves in their human form, which is extremely crucial, especially now with this rise of consciousness. But I don't think we are here to just be. I don't think that we are here to just, you know, rest and work is something you do to make money so you can go back to this rested stuff state. I think that the true work that we are doing and how I call it the W E R k work, which has higher vibration to it, that is actually why we're here. The sleep, the self care, the recovery is so we can go out there and live our best lives. And I think by perpetuating, you know, quotes and ideas that we only have this finite amount of energy. Be careful who you're surrounded by. Be careful what you use your energy on. Delegate every single thing in your whole entire life so you can just become this blob and do absolutely nothing, because that's the peak of humanity. I don't believe that's true. When I am creating something, like I'm writing my book or I'm even on phone calls. But there's something that I want to be working on, or I'm recording these podcasts or writing the descriptions or whatever it is that I'm doing. There's nowhere else I want to be. I am fully immersed in that doing. It is my sacred doing. It is my divine doing, and that is the highest form of being. Most of us, we aren't willing to go there. We aren't willing to ask ourselves, what is it that I truly want to be doing? How is my highest form expressed? How can I every day be doing something that brings me joy and excitement and fulfillment? And yes, there will be obstacles and issues and customer service and all of that stuff too. But I want to be here. Like in a relationship, there are going to be difficult moments in your relationship. There are going to be arguments and fights and misunderstandings and moments that you might want to walk away. But what causes the relationship to thrive is even in those moments when most people would have given up, walked away, taken a drive, never come back to, still say, I want to be here and I want to make this work, most of us are not willing to go there with our dharmas. We are not willing to ask those big questions of what sets my soul on fire. So because of this, we're looking for a bandaid. How can I take more bubble baths and you know, practice more self care and set more boundaries and all of these things that aren't important. But, but let's get to the real issue here, which is how are you living your life? Because I can meditate and put oil on my skin and eat the healthiest diet, but if I hate what I'm doing, it's just a band aid and it disempowers us because we are actually capable of so much more than we give ourselves credit for. Like, that is the thing that I really want to drive home to you guys today. And I hope you see this in the work that I'm doing. But there are so many times that I myself have given into this limiting belief of all my energy is finite and I'm this fragile being and oh God, I only have this many, you know, sticks to give out. Yes, if you are ill, if you have Lyme disease, if you have something like that, that might be the case for you. But if you're a healthy, able bodied human, you actually have a lot more energy than you that you haven't even tapped into yet. Okay, real talk, the product I'm about to tell you about is literally the best thing I've ever put into my mouth. 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You know, I've seen times in my life where before I'm like, I don't even know how I'm going to get through the next month. I look at my schedule and it's traveling and speaking and creating things and showing up there and 12 hour work days every single day. And sometimes I'm like, oh my God, I don't know how I'm going to do it. I'm going to burn out. It's going to be too much for me. I even had nightmares before sometimes of like being kidnapped in my own life. And I freak myself out. And then when I get in there and I start doing it and I start speaking and teaching and sharing my gifts, I become more alive than ever before. And in fact I laugh because I think about what I before thought I was capable of and how it was just a fraction of what I truly am capable of. And I see this happen with many mothers when they have children, they look back on their lives pre children. And I'm not a mother, so I can't speak to this personally, but I'm sure you mom is out there listening. You look at your life pre children, you're like, that's cute. I thought I was multitasking. I thought I was giving it my all. Like you're introduced to a whole nother level of your superwoman. When you become a mother, the things that appeared to be mountains to you before are like rolling hills that you step over. And this is life, this is evolvement. As we progress, as we step deeper and deeper into our truth, we realize that we have so much more within us that we have only been playing in the puddles of our oceans. You know, I look at Marianne Williamson who is just running for president every single day, being in a new state, rallying to people who didn't believe in her, and showing up in ways that most of us would never be able to. And whether you agree with her politics or not, we can all look at that as something admirable. And you know, before running for president, she was a spiritual teacher and an author and taught about, you know, meditation and relationships and goddesses and all of these things. But then she stepped up to this whole other being of who she was and suddenly the energy rose with her. Had she thought, oh God, you know, I'm not gonna be able to meditate enough if I run for president. I'm not gonna be able to practice like my self care and you know, I'm not gonna be able to walk in nature anymore. She would have never done it. And her doing it has inspired hundreds of thousands of people to step up into their power. Just the fact that, you know, we see someone in the spiritual community play big in such a way is inspiring for all of us. And had she read these quotes and take them too seriously and said, you know, I'm a human being, not a human doing, and I only have a finite amount of energy, so I might as well just sit on the couch and delegate my life because the point of my involvement is to have the littlest amount of energy expenditure possible. We would not have ancient scriptures if people thought that way. We would not have art if people thought that way. We would not have language and music and buildings and civilizations and astrology and medicine. We would not have anything if humans thought that way. It's because humans have always been pushing their limits, seeing, wow, how else can I show up? How else can I serve? What else is waiting for me on this other side? It's because we've always been surpassing our former limits that we have become limitless. And this is the most important message for the spiritual community, I believe, because we are the ones who are aligned with truth. We are the ones on a daily basis asking, how can I serve? So when we get brainwashed by limiting beliefs and conditioning that make us appear fragile and limited, then our medicine, our alchemy, the schools and businesses and visions that are waiting to be birthed through us will not, because our human mind read on Instagram that I'm not gonna have enough energy for it and I should hire a VA to do it for me and I should automate my whole life. So I'm making money while I sleep, so maybe all I do is just sleep. Like, fuck that. I don't want to work a four hour work week because I love my work. I work 247 because even when I'm dreaming, I'm working, I'm creating from those dreams. So when we see that separation between my working self and my true self, my self out into the world and my highest self, we fragment ourselves from our power. We say, okay, my power is over here, but the stuff I have to do to be successful in society is over there. So I have to disempower myself. 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