Sol Brah argues that men who constantly defer decisions to their partners with "whatever you want" or "I don't know" suppress their masculine role and push women toward masculine traits. A man who withholds decision-making forces his partner to become more self-directed, eroding the feminine-masculine dynamic he likely wants.
Are you making this huge mistake in your relationship as the man? Your girl asks for your input and you say, "Whatever you want to do is fine." Maybe you don't want to upset her or you genuinely don't mind in this situation. This would be a good response to a mate, but not your romantic partner. She asks where you want to go for dinner and you say, "I don't know, what do you want to eat?" As a man, by forcing the feminine to make decisions, you're withholding your masculine potential and making the girl magnify her masculine. If this is constant, she will be pushed to become her own man. If you want your woman to be feminine, you must be masculine, which means making the decisions and shouldering responsibility.
