CoachStation Leadership Development Program: Module 2

Steve Riddle defines leadership presence as focus, competence, and intention rather than charisma. He introduces three tools: a trait self-assessment, the SCARF model for psychological safety, and a coaching conversation planner to help leaders observe where their presence fades and align self-perception with how their team actually experiences them.
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Welcome to Module 2 of the CoachStation Leadership Development Program, Leadership Presence: Focused, Competent, Intentional. In the first module, we explored clarity, consistency, and flexibility as the foundational traits of effective leadership. Of course, they're not the only traits and attributes that make leaders and leadership fully formed, but they are 3 that we've found to be very important. And we looked at how coaching works best when it's co-owned and how leading with purpose requires active intention, not just good intent. So this next step in Module 2 is about something deeply personal and highly visible: leadership presence. Or it could be thought of another way, as just human-to-human contact and human presence. It's not about charisma, it's not about being the loudest voice in the room, and it's definitely not about image. Leadership presence is about how you show up, what you stand for, and how that's experienced by the people around you, especially when things are tough. It's how you communicate under pressure. It's how you stay grounded when you're stretched. It's how you handle ambiguity, conflict, and resistance without losing your balance or your influence. And if you've ever worked with someone who had presence, you know it, you can feel it, and you see it. They don't dominate, but they hold space. They don't always have the answers, but they speak with clarity. They don't react, they respond. That's the kind of leadership presence this module is built around. To help you explore your own presence, we're going to hone in on 3 key themes: focus, competence, and intention. So let's start with focus. In a world full of noise and pressure, focused leaders stand out. They prioritise and they listen. They don't fill space just to be seen. They speak when it matters and act with purpose, and people want to hear what they have to say. Focus is what allows you to tune out distraction and tune into what your team actually needs. It helps you manage your own emotions and read the room more effectively. But here's the truth: many leaders confuse activity with impact. They stay busy, but they're not necessarily focused. And presence without focus is just noise. Next is competence. Now, this isn't about technical skills or being the subject matter expert. It's about the kind of competence that builds trust. Are you dependable? Do you follow through? Do your team members feel confident bringing challenges to you, knowing you'll engage, not react? This kind of competence isn't proven by what you know, it's shown in how you lead. And finally, we have intention. This is the quiet driver behind presence. It's the difference between reacting out of habit and responding with purpose. Intentional leaders don't just go through the motions. They understand their impact. They make decisions with care. They communicate with clarity, and they know when to lean in and when to step back. Focus, competence, and intention— when these 3 are in play, your leadership presence becomes a stabilising force. You help others feel safe, clear, and supported, and that creates a space for performance, accountability, and trust. To help you assess and develop your own presence, this module introduces 3 powerful tools. First is the Leadership Trait Self-Assessment. It's not a personality test, it's a tool. To help you reflect on the behaviours and skills that you bring to leadership, the strengths you lean on, the blind spots you may overlook, and the areas you can develop further. It's a mirror, and the value comes from how honestly you look into it. As you complete it, don't just look for what's missing, look for what's underused, and also look for what's already a strength and that you're doing very well. You may be stronger than you realise in some traits, but not applying them consistently, or you might find areas that need sharpening. Especially if your leadership context has shifted recently. Next is the SCARF model, a neuroscience-based framework that helps explain human behaviour and emotional response in the workplace. SCARF stands for status, certainty, autonomy, relatedness, and fairness. These 5 domains influence how safe or threatened people feel in a given interaction, and if people feel psychologically unsafe, your presence won't land. No matter how well-intentioned you are. Understanding your staff gives you insight into how to lead with empathy, reduce unintentional triggers, and create more productive, trust-based relationships. We've included resources to help you apply this with your team, but start with yourself. How do you react when your own status or certainty is challenged? What gets triggered for you? These questions aren't just reflective, they're foundational to your presence. And finally, we introduce the Coaching Conversation Planner. It's a simple tool that supports intentional leadership and influencing others, giving you a framework to prepare for meaningful structured conversations. Whether you're coaching a team member, giving feedback, or facilitating a one-on-one, the planner helps you stay focused, present, and clear. Because presence isn't something you bring out when it suits, it's how you carry yourself every day. And strong presence is built through preparation, Self-awareness and consistent action. So here's your challenge in this module. Don't just complete the tools. Don't just read the material. Use them to start noticing yourself in action. Translate the information into your world. Where does your presence fade? What pulls you off track? Are you showing up the way you think you are or the way your team actually experiences you? This is where growth begins, in the moments where you choose to pause, reflect, and lead differently. Bring your insights into your next coaching session. Be specific, drill down, and be honest. And be ready to work with your coach to sharpen the presence you want to build and be known for. Because how you show up shapes everything, and it's time to take full ownership of that.










