Have you set any goals or intentions for 2021?? I have a rather fun activity you can do to get clea

Tami Grgas walks through a three-page goal-setting exercise from mentor Ray Higdon, turning disappointments into present-tense mantras and burning the list of unwanted results. She shares updates on her hair salon and makeup business, including a new neighborhood-site marketing class and upcoming Facebook parties.
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Hello, Tami Grgas here, getting ready to go to work, gonna do my makeup, my usual. So I wanted to talk to you today about something I actually learned today from my mentor, Ray Higdon. This guy is, he's just a wealth of knowledge, he and his wife. And today he talked about, um, not really setting goals, but it's more about getting clear on what your goals or intentions or whatever you want to call it for the new year are. So, um, number one, you need, you need like I have 3 sheets of paper. He said 2, but I need 3 because, because I do. That's just the way that I am. So on the first sheet of paper, you are going to write what you are not happy with, what you don't want to do, what you are discouraged about. So on my first one, I have not lost enough weight this year. I'd like to lose more. So that's my, my first one. Um, you can set them for your bank account, for if you're a small business owner, your, um, revenue. Um, there's just like lots of different things you can look at your personal life. Another one is that I have not been— well, James has been quite ill this year. We really don't know what's going on with him. We thought he had the COVID so had him tested and he didn't. So that, that was good. However, if he had had the COVID it would have been an answer. But anyways, anyways. Anyways. So let me find my other— that's not the right brush. Sorry, I'm trying to find the right brush for my contour. Which one is it? I think it's this one. Okay. So anyways, you, you need to look at your own life and just write a list on a piece of paper about the results that you are not happy about. If you're in network marketing, did you reach out to enough people through the year? Are you disappointed in that? Would you like, you know, like, was that a disappointment for you? Kind of was for me. I also am trying to figure out how to do kind of Facebook parties online, which is frustrating for me. I am going through some training and gaining some knowledge, and I think I know how I want to do this. I don't like doing things the way everybody else does. Um, that's just part of who I am. So So that's this first page. I've only got 2 things on mine so far. The first one is not— I have not lost enough weight this year. And my second one is my bank account does not have as much money in it as I would like. So those are 2 that I have so far. Now what you're going to do on your second page, your second page are the results that you want. Okay, so I want to have the result that my body is toning and I've lost the weight that I want to lose. I really, like, honestly, I don't step on the scale that often because, um, if I'm feeling fine, then whatever. I don't feel a need to step on the scale because sometimes it depresses me. My body has shifted doing this keto thing and I'm wearing a size smaller pant, but my weight has not shifted as much as I personally would think it should. Okay, so anyways, that my result that I want is I want my body to be toning and losing weight. Okay. And then the result that I want is I want to have a lot of money in my bank account. I haven't figured out— I haven't written that one down yet because I think I'd like to have at least $5,000 in reserves in my bank account for, you know, my salon and all that kind of stuff so that I, I really don't have to worry if we're shut down or worry if all this weird COVID crap happens, like, you know, me getting sick with it. That shut me down for almost 3 weeks. Um, so yeah, there's that. Now on the third page, and this is— he was saying that you could use the second page for this, but I kind of like using it for my third page. Okay, I'm taking the results that I do want and writing down, "I'm so happy and grateful that my body is toning and I am losing weight." So making them kind of into mantras, and you're supposed to do your mantras in the present time, like you want it to— although you might not be there yet, you want your mantras to be there. And I really don't understand the reasoning behind that, but— I've been told that. And then you can take, let me see, doo doo doo doo. Now, so you've got the results you're not happy about, the results that you want, and then you're creating the results that you do want into mantras. And you know, you can post it on your bathroom mirror, whatever. And then you're going to take the results that you're not happy about and you're gonna burn them. I contemplated doing it on my live, however, I'm in my bedroom and I don't like house fires, so I'll probably do it at a later time, maybe tomorrow. I will do it outside and I'll probably post it in my TikTok or something and share it to here of me burning what I'm not happy about. But that kind of— it's a psychological thing and it helps you to release it, let go of it. Like, don't be so caught up in what you didn't do. So that's my little trick. For kind of clearing the mind for your new goals for the new year, figure out what you did that you didn't like or what you tried that didn't work because, you know, as an entrepreneur, we try a lot of things. So for example, like I have a hair salon and I have my my direct sales business with my makeup, and I also sell products at my salon. And, you know, I've got all these things going on, okay? And I am— I wasn't really too into the neighborhood site. However, um, I found a class about using the neighborhood site for your small business. And I'm like, you know, I think that's probably a good idea for the salon, because that's more local people, you know. Facebook, I'm getting out to the world, basically. With the salon, I need to be more local. So I signed up for the class. And I'll be doing it tomorrow, Wednesday, and hopefully it will help me to grow my salon even more, which would be fantastic. I love doing hair. I love playing with hair. I don't know if you guys noticed my, my melt that I did on my hair. It kind of, it starts at like a dark purpley red and melts out to a lighter red on my ends. I love it. No more pink, no more COVID pink. Yeah, COVID pink is done. I don't want the COVID again. Don't get it, it's not fun. Um, where did my perfume go? I need some perfume. There it is. So one thing that I love about my line of makeup is I use my perfume as a highlighter. Isn't that fun? And it smells so luscious. I love this one. Um, and stay tuned because I am going to be announcing my upcoming Sorry, my upcoming Facebook party that I'm doing, and I will be mailing out samples. So the first one I'm going to do is the skincare. Okay, so I'll be mailing out samples of the skin— skin care— of the skincare to all participants who want to. And getting feedback about what you think of it. I mean, I want to know truly what you think of the skincare. I have sensitive skin, I get eczema, and I've been using this skincare for over a year and I don't get eczema anymore. So that's kind of cool. Um, but yeah, the, the second class I do, I'm probably going to do one every 3 weeks or so because I'm going to have to mail out samples and that's going to take some time. Yeah. And then I want to do the live and show you how to use the products. Um, it will be like a tutorial, so you'll watch me, I won't watch you doing it. Um, and yeah, it's, uh, I'm excited about this system I'm coming up with. And I'll, you know, like I said, I want feedback and want to know what you guys think of the products. And then I think I'll alternate. I'll do skincare for one class and then makeup for another class and go back and forth. The makeup's a little more difficult just because I have to get your selfies so I can color match you and send you the samples of the different colors and once that's done, you'll have to either use your fingers or have brushes to use at home. So, you know, it's a little more— at least you get to try the makeup, you know. So that will be fun. So just keep your eye out. I'll be posting it on my timeline, I guess that's what you call it, sometime soon. I need to put my eyes on so I can see who's here. Hello, hello, hello! Oh, and Pauline, My makeup line can ship to Canada too, so you can even try that. Hi Sharon— Shannon. Hey Pammy, Emily. Hey Tim, you just— you want to try some makeup? Ellen and Shannon, hello everybody. I'm glad you could make it onto my live today. I am going into the salon now, so I will see you all another time. Watch out for my announcement though. I'm so excited to send out samples and let people try these products before they buy. Bye! Bye!
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