How Does Life Really Work or Simple Secret of Happiness

Coach Andrey V. Karpov explains how stress creates a negative feedback loop and offers a framework using visualization and affirmations to reprogram your subconscious. He compares the conscious mind to a keyboard and the subconscious to compiled code, warning against chasing superficial symbols of success and emphasizing the importance of clarifying your why.
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Buonasera amici. I want to record a quick clip for you on how life actually works. I know this is probably going to sound like, oh, come on, everybody's trying to tell me how to live my life and how to decipher the code of happiness. Well, reality is it's very simple. It is simple to understand the whole concept if you really want to understand it. The difficulty is your patience, your consistency, and most importantly, your determination. Everything else is really easy. So how does it actually work? Very simply. So I'm going to give you analogies, and that should kind of answer all the questions that you probably had before. When you stress, you experience a lot of negative emotions. Whatever you stress about doesn't matter. And the more you think about, you know, the negative things that happen, the more negative things come into your life. So what does that mean? That means that basically anything negative will result in negative force. It will bring negative thoughts into your life. And, you know, you're just going to be stressing, you're not going to be happy, and you're kind of like in a snowball effect, right? You're experiencing stress already, you are anticipating more stress, you're anticipating more negative events, and there's really nothing positive that can get you back into that loop. The truth is, if there really isn't anything positive, the reason that there isn't anything positive is because you're not in the right state of mind, you're not operating on the right vibrations. So, how do you get out of that and how do you actually project positive thoughts? Into your light— life. See, my subconscious is thinking actually right now I don't have enough light to film this video, and I want you to guys see me, so I'm going to just stand here in front of the light because I'm walking my dog. It's close to midnight, but I still wanted to record this video for you while it was fresh in my head. So I'm going to turn a little bit here. Anyways, so the bottom line is when you start thinking positive positively, positive things start to happen. Okay, this is a very generic statement. It's not going to really solve your problem, right? Let me explain a little bit deeper. If you are projecting something into your life that you truly, truly want, you want it to happen, or you want something to come into your life, someone to come into your life, whatever it is— job, person, event, money, whatever it is, health, right? You have to imagine as hard as you can in your head that this already exists. Not that it will happen, that's very important, but that it already exists. And that is basically fooling yourself. And you will say, "Well, I don't like to lie." Well, you're not lying to anyone. In fact, it doesn't matter what others think. That's one other thing you have to realize. You're doing this for yourself. So you are programming your mindset on a neurolinguistic programming level. Come on, Leah. See, I can't program my dog to listen to me. I can only trust her that she actually understands what we're doing and that we have to head home soon, right? But that happens because I respect her and she has certain autonomy, right? Even though she's a dog and I'm her owner. Now, when it comes to your brain, your brain is the same way, right? It operates in different patterns and different waves and you have to code it. You have to continuously be the developer of your brain. And you start with your conscious, right? You consciously think about certain things. You consciously surround yourself with certain things. You consciously, you know, create events around you that will influence your subconscious. So think about your conscious as your keyboard, as your computer, and think about your subconscious as the output, right? So you're compiling the code and then you're basically, you know, executing the code and the program runs. I used to be a programmer once in the past. And that's kind of how it goes, right? You got to write the code and then you compile it, assemble it, and then you execute it, and then you see what you got. So the same thing here. Your mind, your conscious mind, is your front end to— or well, in this particular case, probably your back end, which you're trying to actually configure. And your subconscious, in this case, is your front end. That's where the output happens, right? It's a reverse engineering approach that you're basically doing. So bottom line is just think positively. Tell yourself that everything already occurred, everything that you want in life, exactly the way you want in life. And then what will start to happen is your life will start to evolve in exactly the direction you want. And you're going to say, okay, How is that actually taking place? Again, interestingly enough, your brain cannot determine between reality and non-reality of things. So— so when we are basically coding the brain in such a way that we are telling it that certain thing occurred or certain thing is already exists, it starts to believe that. The The challenge is you have to consistently tell it the same thing. And what happens is it will basically get into the state of realizing that that is true, even though it may not be true. That is exactly how neuro-linguistic programming works. And that's why I referred it in that sense, right? I compared it to that for you. So the more you tell yourself that everything is fine, basically, you're speaking, the more it will be fine, the more things will be positive for you. You have to code your brain on a regular basis. Right, I know it's hard. So this video is actually very fun, as you can see. You have to tell yourself that things are positive, things are good, everything is exactly the way you want right now already, even if things are not good, you're telling your brain like, I'm fine, life is good, everything is perfect, like I'm really having a ball, I'm enjoying life. So basically, theoretically speaking, like dope yourself, right, with, with this idea of infusion of like, oh my God, like I'm in Shangri-La, right, without actually obviously using any substances or any other bad things. But tell yourself that you are in the state of happiness. Your body will experience happiness the way it really is, those positive emotions, and after a while it will get used to you producing such triggers, programming it in such a way that you actually are feeling that way. And what will start to happen, energy, positive energy will start flowing into your life, and all of the things that you were projecting, all of your visions, all of your affirmations, they will start to come true. So I know it sounds ridiculous, I know it sounds crazy, but this is not something that Coach Andrey V. Karpov invented tonight for you. This is something that has existed for generations, and I'm just trying to explain to you how it works. And last but not least, This is the stuff I use for myself on a regular basis. So fake it till you make it, if you will, or surround yourself with certain attributes, with certain lifestyle, with certain people, certain events, and other artifacts that will lead you to exactly where you want to be in life. Obviously, you know, be realistic about some things, right? Like don't buy a Rolls-Royce and think that that's going to make you rich. That won't. That will actually probably create, you know, a big issue for your budget if you are not financially capable to afford that. And even if you are, is that really what you want? Will that really make you happy? So determine what your happiness is, what your why is, right? The how component will be achieved by the universe. Just know what you want. Know exactly what you want. Know why you want it. And the how will be determined by the universe. When will be determined by the universe. It will be quicker than you think. So I hope this video was helpful. Again, that's kind of the secret to life, or the big secret that, you know, everybody is talking about out there. There's a lot of people who lecture on this topic, write books, do seminars, workshops. Some of them are very long, some of them are very short. The bottom line is code your brain in such a way on regular basis that you are already where you exactly want to be and believe in it until it happens and then continue believing and it will stay that way. That's all there is to it. It works ridiculously, miraculously, crazily, insanely truthfully the way I'm describing, based on my own experience. I hope this helps. May the true Agile Force be with you, and thanks for watching.
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