Stop chasing followers and validation. Instead, invest in yourself, create real value, and let people come to you. Chasing others projects neediness; building genuine impact attracts the right energy and opportunities.
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What's up guys? Are you chasing people in your life? Clients, business partners, loved ones, followers, or anybody else for that matter? Well, if you are, this video is for you because today I'd like to talk to you about chasing your dreams as opposed to chasing people. Chasing your dreams is is much more fulfilling and better than trying to chase people. Why, will you say? Well, because when you chase dreams, you are connecting your subconscious with your conscious mind, and you're creating a universe of opportunities. You're creating harmony where basically everything you want to achieve will be given to you by the universe if you project positive thoughts and if you put positive energy into the universe. However, when you are chasing people, you are just by that word alone chasing them. You're trying to persuade them or convince them to associate with you in some shape, way, or form. You're chasing an employer, you're trying to persuade them to hire you. You're chasing a loved one, you're trying to tell them that you love them but they may not necessarily love you. And typically that is because the universe did not mean them for you, and you can't let go because you're afraid to be alone, and you can't imagine that there can be someone else in your life. When you're chasing friends, you're trying to tell them that you feel lonely, or that you're better than them, and that you want someone in your life. The truth is, every human is designed in such a way from birth And this is very important to realize that we're born alone and we die alone. That's just a fact of life. Does that mean that you have to be alone all your life? No, you don't have to be, and you won't most likely be. But the truth is, when you chase, you're not attracting, you're coming across as needy. So you want to make sure you attract the right people into your life. Now, how do you do that? You obviously work on yourself. You progress, you upscale, you create impact. You work on your health, you work on your mind, you work on your, um, education, your experience, and on self-fulfillment and self-impact, where you're actually feel— feeling good about what you do so that others around you can see that sunshine and can be attracted to you. So that's basically the nuts and bolts of Chasing versus attraction. Same thing, by the way, applies for followers on social media. A lot of people these days feel that they need to gain as many followers as possible, and the minute they gain as many followers as possible, they have a lot of impact, a lot of influence, and that just means that they're so important. Well, unfortunately, I have to tell you that you're very wrong, and I have experience experienced it myself, and I have seen plenty of people out there locally, regionally, nationally, and internationally have a ton of followers, and they don't get that many likes, reposts, comments, or even organic impressions for that matter. And what does that really mean? Is their content bad? Are the followers bad? Doesn't mean anything. It just means that, um, you know, at some point in time they've gained those followers, and they are either monitoring periodically that content, or they are very tired of the same type of content, or they're jealous of that type of content. Whatever it is, which you need to understand, trying to chase them, trying to persuade yourself that you have an army of followers that can really mean something for you is useless. Which you have to focus on again and again and again is creating impact creating content, having a vision of how you impact your community without being too much concerned who is following you, how they're following you. And what will happen over time is all of the right people, whether it's friends, whether it's business partners, whether it's loved ones, you know, colleagues, team members, and the right followers on social media outlets will come into your life. You will start feeling truly that you have the right community around you because you were not focusing on validation from them. You were not focusing on attracting them from the standpoint of coming across needy. You were focusing on building a community based on impact by creating impact within. So that's how this works, guys. That is the power of the universe. I truly wish you not to come across needy, not to chase clients, not to chase partners, not to chase, uh, friends, not to chase, uh, loved ones, but to focus on generating impact, focus on filling your head with purposeful information, focus on creativity, and then Only then the universe will balance and harmonize everything in your life. And most importantly, do not be fearful. Do not fall into the stigma of loneliness. Do not fall into the stigma of that you need someone to be complete. You do not need anyone other than your shadow, as I like to joke. But the truth is, if you understand that and accept that as a fact of life, life will be fair to you and kind to you and will give you all the right people that you need. And even then, you should not be afraid to let go or lose them. You don't need to be attached to them forever because nothing, unfortunately, is eternal. And life is the same way. But that's the beauty of life. We come into this world to create an impact. And then we are replaced with something fresh and new, with ideas, people, events, you know, projects and so forth. So I hope this video was helpful. I hope it gave you some reflections. If it did, please like, comment, subscribe, reshare, and may the true Agile Force be with you always.
