Maybes suck. You can’t win if you don’t ask for the business.

28 Sept 2026 · 0 min
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In this brief, high‑energy monologue, sales trainer Andy Neary argues that successful selling requires a deliberately push‑forward attitude. He tells listeners to “be an asshole,” meaning they must be willing to ask for the business directly and accept outright rejections (“go pound sand”). Neary stresses that a salesperson’s primary objective is to force prospects into a clear decision, warning against a pipeline clogged with indecisive “maybes” that never convert. The overall message is that aggressive, decisive tactics are essential for closing deals.

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