Are they eager to see you and hesitant to leave you?

Hey darlings, April Mason here, and I'm just leaving the gym, and I got to thinking. I turn 44 at the end of June, and my thoughts were, you know, the older you get, the more wiser you should get. And this is what I got for you today. Be okay with connecting with somebody that loves the way you love, that's okay with moving at the same pace you're okay with moving at, because what happens is we connect with people and we hold back who we are or how we love or how fast we fall in love or what we give, all because we don't want to be rejected. But when you connect with someone who's okay with your pace, they're on the same pace as you, they're okay with how you love, you don't have to worry about all of that. You don't need the clarity— do they like me, don't they like me? I teach my ladies in the Teach Me How to Date VIP Academy, and I live my life like this as well, as I only deal with men that are eager to see me and hesitant to leave me. The reason why I operate like this is because when a person is eager to see you and hesitant to leave you, you never have to worry where you stand. They view you as someone that's valuable and can add value to their lives, as well as they can add value to yours. So they don't want to take a risk of possibly losing you because they want to play these old silly dating games. I don't want her to know that I really like her because I don't want to look up here thirsty, or I don't want to show him that I really, I'm like him and I'm open to him because I don't want to be like the rest of these chicks. Find someone that's okay with the way you love, as well as on the same path and pace as you, because if you don't, you're going to be frustrated trying to figure out where is this going, what are we doing, where do I stay. A good friend of mine said pray about the person, then jump in with both feet, because what you want is someone that will accept you for all of who you are, you know, the good the bad, the ugly, the quirky things, the silly things about you, all of that. But you can't show them that if you got going to be hesitant of showing who you really are and how you love and what you have to offer. If you play this representative game, um, from day one, your prayer or what you need to manifest in your life should be someone to come into your life that's on the same path as you, even if they don't know it. Because a lot of times men don't know what they want until he comes across her. And when you come across her, fellas, Snatch her up, snatch her up, because she's a rare jewel and she adds value to your life just like you can add value to hers. Okay, no more of the silly dating games, y'all. We getting too old for that.