Love is a choice away!

Hey darlin', it's April Mason here, your number one femininity and dating coach for the successful woman. And here's some Sunday inspiration for you. If you don't remember anything else I've ever said to you before, remember this: love is a choice, and love is only one choice away. You can decide at any given moment that you're going to open up your heart to love again. It's just what it is. We've all been through things. I've been divorced. I know what it feels like to have your heart broken. I know what it feels like to be cheated on, lied to, all of those things. But remember this: your desire Your desire for love has to outweigh the pain of what you've gone through, okay? Your desire for love has to outweigh that. So we all desire companionship. Although you might say, you know what, April, but these men don't want none of these women. Stop trying to fool yourself. Every— I think I posted a post, I think it was yesterday, that said whatever you believe is what you will see. So if you believe that there are no good men around, of course there's never going to be any good men around. If you believe that there are no good women that don't want— that want good men around, that's all you're going to see. You attract what you believe. Until you change your belief, darling, do not expect to see anything differently because it's all about what you choose to believe. Now, I will say it can be a little difficult and challenging sometimes to believe in something else, but do you like the results that you're getting? If you don't like the results that you're getting, the only person holding you up is you. So what you gonna do? It's 2019. And you've been saying the same thing, you know, everything. For these men, they don't want nothing. But guess what? You don't get out of the house. You don't have a life. You're not on your mission and your purpose. So how would you know if there are good men out there or not? You don't know. So you're really not qualified to say anything because you're not doing what you're supposed to be doing in order to attract that to you. Fellas, if you're a great man and you know it, and you have done your self-work and you're constantly doing your self-work, Let me say that again. Do I need to say it a little, little, little bit slower? Fellas, do your self-work, okay? We know that you, you, um, you guys get hurt and, and have some issues, and women have abused you and used you and taken you for granted. Every woman is not going to do you that way, okay? So before you go out there looking for an asset woman, make sure you've done your work, okay? Make sure that you ready for something. Make sure that you can identify a diamond when she comes into your life, because there's a lot of you who have ran across amazing women, but because you claim you weren't ready and you didn't know what to do with her. And the only reason why you don't know what to do with her is, like I always tell y'all, you gotta put in new information. So the old chicks that you've been dealing with have you programmed to, to respond and to react a certain way. Well, ask that woman, we're not going to deal with that, okay? Because number one, we're not going to give you the same issues that you're accustomed to dealing with. So Fellas, this is my advice to you. Start practicing good, accepting good in your life. Start practicing, um, how would I respond if I had a good woman? Because if you're not used to a good woman in your life, all you're going to do is run a good one away because she's not going to stay there long enough to be dealing with the BS. Now, if you're open a little bit for her to help show you what true love is, fine. You know, wise women, we can tell the difference between one that need a little bit of help and then one that's just— he just shut off and he keep running. You keep running, we gonna let you run, honey. We're not saving you. We're not gonna do that. We're not gonna do the whole, you know, uh, I'm not like them. We're not gonna do that. If you can't identify that, we ain't gonna, honey. That's just not what wise women do. I'm trying to show you. No, you got to be open just enough for a woman to show you something different. So that's my motivational, uh, information for you on this, on this here Sunday, Sunday, um, afternoon. It's a beautiful day. It feels like an LA day in Atlanta. It's beautiful out here today, and I'm just out here running them streets. If y'all see me somewhere, say hi if you in the A. But I wanted to share that with you because it's 2019 and it's too many people walking around lonely and desire somebody. And then the more you stay to yourself, the more it's hard— the harder it is for you to really open up and let somebody in. And we don't want that. We desire companionship, connection. I don't— y'all ain't gonna make me believe that y'all don't want somebody claiming you. We all want to belong to somebody. That's why we like to say, that's my man. And that's why our men like to say, now that's my girl right there. We all want to feel like we are, um, so like we belong to somebody. We crave companionship. So quit it. And y'all quit the whole, I want the companionship and sex without the relationship. Because I was, uh, where was I at? I was somewhere. I was talking to some men. I was sitting there having a conversation for men. Yeah. And I told the guy, I said, think about this, it's easier for us to give our bodies away than to open up. So you can say, I'll give this woman, I will let them, or I'll let a man get the closest that he can to me, and that is enter inside of me with his penis, but I will not open my heart and let anybody in. Think about that. I will lay down with a woman and I will put my manhood inside of a woman that I don't know, the most intimate part of me, but I won't allow anybody into my heart or into my mind. Isn't that interesting that we could give up the physical just so easy? Isn't that interesting? And so as I'm sitting here explaining this to some men, and they were like, "I never thought about it that way." They say, "It make us sound real bad." I said, "Think about that. Think about that." We will lay down with a man and let him get naked in front of him, let him see our body, let him enter inside of us. He's literally putting his penis inside of us, but we will not be open enough to let anybody get close to us from an emotional, mental, and spiritual place. Isn't that something, y'all? Think about that. Think about it. Fellas, this is you too. You gotta value the PP too. Value your penis too. We don't want community pee pee. That ain't what we want. Okay, so I love you guys. Gotta go. I have an amazing day planned, but I wanted to share that with you. And make sure you share this with others that you know that are having a tough time opening up to love again. It's 2019. Nobody have time to be alone. And I'll close with this: that next level that you're trying to get to, guess what? It may require you connecting, being open enough to connect with your purpose mate to help you get there. So many of us have been trying to do it all by ourselves, you know, and we're trying to get to a certain level and we can't because we're only operating on one side of our brain. One of my clients back in California, I'll never forget, he told me, he said, April, it wasn't until I involved my wife or connected with my wife that my ministry started to grow. And I said, wow. He said, yeah, because I only think on the left side of my brain and she thinks with the other side of her brain. So it wasn't until she came that everything exploded. Exploded. So fellas, it's not always about how much money you have. It's are you operating and have you identified who you're supposed to be and you're operating in it on some level. You may not be fully functioning in it, but you've identified with it and you are on your, your grind to make it happen. A wise woman can see that. It's, it's the man that we don't want that don't know what the hell he's supposed to be doing and he just living from paycheck to paycheck, but complaining and he has no vision, he has no direction. A woman will follow a broke man with a vision anywhere, honey. I promise you, he got some potential and he's operating in it. Not just potential, but he has a dream and he's awakened to live the dream, honey. And then on top of that, he's able to identify the diamond and the asset woman in you, and he's not gonna run from your help or feel like you trying to change him. That kind of brother, that's my type right there. He don't have to already be in it, but he got to be doing something. He has to be— have identified what it is that he's supposed to be doing. Those are the kind of fellas that we're talking about, that we may— you might not be all the way where you need to be, but you're actually going to where you want to be. And a lot of times it takes a woman, honey, because that's what we do. We birth things, honey. And it's not building a man. And I've taught this before. If you might teach me how to date VIP Academy, I taught difference between building a man and amplifying a man. Asset women, we are amplifiers, is what we do. We don't build anything, we amplify, because we choose men that already have things in place for us to amplify and magnify. Okay, I'm just saying. And ladies, you don't have to have all your stuff together for you to get, uh, with a good man, because you might need him to help you think, think of some new ideas, help you put it together. You know, I remember I had a friend of mine, you know, we weren't even dating, but I needed him, and he came to one of my events to help me sell my books. He just knew I needed some help. So a lot of things that I couldn't have done on my own, and that was just even having a friend around to do those things. So what y'all waiting on? Get y'all tail out the house, honey. Stop being suspicious of everybody. Follow your heart, of course, but take your brain with you. That's what I taught— that's what I teach my children. Take your brain with you and get out there. Go amplify somebody. Fellas, go amplify somebody's life because you're needed. We need you. If you ain't never heard a sister tell you before, only a silly woman would say she don't need a man. Asset women, we need our men. We need our men. You know why we need you? Because we know that we were not created and designed to do this life alone. It took a man and a woman for us to even get here on this earth. So what makes us think there's a part of us that doesn't— that do not crave what we came for? From. Okay, we crave y'all. We love y'all. We, we— Miss Mason love the brothers. I'm just saying, I, I, I've been, I've been approached by others, but there's nothing better than the brothers. Love y'all. Bye.