Right NOW is the time for love ♥️ Raise your LOVE vibration!

Dating educator April Mason argues that now is the time to open your heart to love, not fear. She says material things like jobs and money are fleeting, while love endures any disaster. Mason urges you to ask out someone you think is out of your league and reach out to your community.
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Hello darlings, happy— what is it, Thursday? It's Thursday. I'm April Mason, your favorite dating and femininity educator, as well as a mindset transformational coach, because everything I do really is not about dating. It's more about getting your mind in the proper position to create the life that you want, regardless of what it is. I just happen to love talking about love. So right now I'm here in my backyard on this A beautiful day. It's a beautiful day because we are alive. If you're watching this, doesn't matter what's going on in your life or what's going on around you, the fact that you are still alive and well says it is a beautiful day. And I must be sweet, honey, because, um, these little bugs keep getting on me, but it's all right. You're so right. It's all right. But listen, there's so much fear going on in the world right now. I mean, like, everybody is just totally fearful. And for years I've been talking about the importance of human connection and the importance of being in a love romantic relationship. What's happened is people have gotten so busy, they're so hurt, and they're so scarred that they do not want to open up to love again. But I gotta say, right now in the crisis that we're having here, um, in America and abroad Wouldn't it be better to have someone to go through the life changes or world changes with? See, what's happening is the things that we watch on television, social media, um, uh, the news, all of that keeps us in a perpetual state of fear. And what it's doing is it's causing you to even be fearful of your neighbors. My neighbors down the way, they look out. You know, we know each other. You know, my neighbors, I don't care if it's 1 o'clock in the morning or 5 o'clock in the afternoon, they gonna be out there in that garage because they were tired making— hey, Miss April, you okay? Yes, I'm okay, I'm okay. So we've gotten to the point to where it doesn't even have to be love or romantic love. We do not even know our neighbors, and we are just fearful of everything and everyone. And the things that they put on television, from, from the movies that we watch to We have all of these shows that perpetuate fear, Armageddon, violence, you know, what do you call it, governmental issues. It's all over the television, so people are in a perpetual state of fear. Then when it comes to your romantic life, all you see on television are things that would say, nope, I'm gonna keep myself guarded, I'm gonna keep myself, you know, isolated from love. But ask Ask yourself this question: any major crisis that has happened in your life, were you doing it alone? And would you have wished that you would have opened your heart to love and had somebody to share those moments, whether they're good moments or whether they're bad moments? When you had your wins, who was there? I'm not talking about your kids and your mom and them. That's beautiful. I'm talking about Having someone there that is your rock, somebody that you, you know, you know, you can have these midnight, uh, hour talks about the things that's going on in life, how you're planning, how you're preparing for what's to come, the good and the bad. Right now is the time for love, okay? Do not let what's going on in this world right now keep you from meeting new people, keeping you from opening up your heart. To love, okay? Because when all is said is done, how much you work doesn't matter. As you see, people are losing jobs left and right. That doesn't matter. They're going home and they're becoming depressed. They don't know what's going on. They don't have anybody to bounce ideas off of. They don't have anybody there that can say, you know what, baby, that's all right, girl, it's going— it's about to be all right. All right, babe, you know what, babe, I know you lost your job, but I still got you, honey. You know, we gonna work through this together because people are losing left and right. You see the stock market. I've been watching the stocks because I'm like, I'm one of them people that's like, I'm looking at everybody else panic, but let me go ahead and invest on this end, you know, myself, since everybody run around here scared. This is not the first time we've had an outbreak in our country, but what we have not changed is how we connect with one another. Because I hear all the time as a dating coach, I don't really have time for men and women because I coach men and women. I don't have time, I'm on my hustle, I'm on my grind. But what happens when all of this time you've been on your hustle and your grind and now you were in the import-export business but now you can't make no money because you can't import nothing in? Okay, now you've been hustling and grinding, doing all of them hours on your job, now they just shut down the entire company and you don't know what to do. You don't have anybody to bounce anything off of. Okay, so All right, here's the deal. I can't make no money, they done shut it down. You know, you know something is going on when they done shut the NBA down and they've canceled big items that will bring revenue money into the cities. It's, you know, when you see stuff like that affecting the money, honey, it's something going on. But we're not taking it, um, seriously to the, to the effect of we will not connect with other people that can help ease the anxiety, ease, you know, feeling like, you know, we're, we're losing it. Right now is the perfect time to open your heart to love. Thank y'all so much for sharing. I, and I can't express that, you know, anymore to you. Do not isolate yourself. Stop looking at this crap all over social media. You got people being the social media, uh, what do you call it, uh, news. They're not really looking at what's really going on. They're just constantly perpetuating fear. As you see, I really ain't talked about what's going on in the world from the perspective of, you know, other than prepare. That's all I'm telling you to do. Prepare. That's it. Prepare for what's to come. And you should have been doing that a long time ago, okay? But also, and you're preparing your home Prepare your heart, open up your heart to love, because this is the perfect time to meet somebody and come together, not from a needy standpoint, but because you now understand, I can't take the money with me, I can't take the job with me, I can't take the car with me. You know, when I'm dead and gone, my family would rather me be here than the life insurance policy that I left them, than the property, than the businesses that I left. What they're going to have to hold on to is the love that we shared, is the memories that we had. So all of y'all folks out there telling me, Miss April, I don't have time, you know, I got to— I'm, I'm— I am getting my, my money in order before I get into a relationship. I'm getting my emotions in order before I get All of that is, is cute, it's wonderful, but at the end of the day, would you prefer to go through life with somebody that, you know, if you— if an apocalypse happened today, you could be holding hands looking at each other and say, at least I've experienced what true love feels like? Because if something happened today, all you built, the buildings, the houses, all your investment property, if they blow up everything today, it's gone. But guess what? That feeling of being loved, that feeling of being enough, the feeling of being chosen by somebody, a feeling of somebody saying, 'Who you are is exactly what I needed. You don't have to be or do nothing else, just be you.' That's the feeling. That's what you want. That's what people are after. But we will distract ourselves with the money, the house, the cars, going after the American dream. But look at what's going on in America, baby. I would rather, if I had to choose, because I know I can have both, but I would rather choose love, something loving and more meaningful than all of the riches in the world. Now, have I set things up for my children after I'm gone? Yeah. But guess what? They would rather forfeit all of that for the love of their mother. You know, Vanessa Bryant, it says that she's now worth over $600 million. She would give all of that money back to have the love of her husband, to have her daughter back. These are the things that are important— human connection. Everybody's going digital with everything, and, and Everybody, you know, where you can get your groceries ordered. And I think there's a time and a place for that, right? But I also think we need to get back to becoming a community. Get back to connecting regardless of what happened in the past. Learn how to trust people again. Be in tune spiritually so your spirit can direct you, be that compass. A lot of you are religious and a lot of you are churchgoers, but you have no spiritual insight. One way that I get spiritual insight is by sitting out here with nature. I love coming out my backyard and sitting out here, um, and getting some work done. If it wasn't getting ready to feel like about to rain, I plug up my laptop right here and sit right here on my little patio and get some work done. But I feel a little— it might be a little drizzle coming, okay? But We gotta stop being so on go, go, go, go, go. Everybody's so go that they're not aware. You're not aware of what's going on around you. You're not aware that your, your soul, your body, your, your mental and physical state misses human connection. I know I can hear you now, but Ms. April, I ain't got time for the BS. Well, the more you say you don't have time for the BS and all of the negative things that you put on it, that's what you're going to get. But I would definitely rather, in doing a time like this, be doing it with someone that loves me just as much as I love them, that says, you know what, babe, it don't even matter what they take. It don't matter if we lose all of our stocks. It don't matter if we lose all of any of our investments. We got each other. And if the world ended today, it could end with me knowing that I was loved. Not just by the Creator, not just by my children, not just by my family members, but by another human being that knew that he needed that same, or she needed that same human connection that you need. So stop all of the other stuff because as you see, doesn't matter how hard you grind, it doesn't matter how hard you go to work for somebody else's company or even your own, it can all be snatched away just like that, because you have no control over it, okay? You have no control. So right now, open your heart to love. Look at those that you've been putting at bay, you've been holding off, you know. And I don't know, I don't know, fellas, I'm gonna tell you this: the woman that you think that's out of your league, ask her out. You'll be surprised. You'll be surprised, ladies. The man that you think that you're not good enough for. There you have it. That's right, Tom Hanks and his wife is going through this together. They're going through it together. That, that's what it's all about. None of his Emmys, none of his Oscars, or his other, any of his other awards, it does not matter. But guess what? Him and his wife are down in Australia together fighting it out, to make it in a good way, meaning fighting what's going on internally. Love heals, people. Love heals. I keep— I can't express it enough. Fear keeps you guarded, protected all the time, you know. I don't know, you know, this is the time that you need to open your heart to love and say, all right, God, universe, whatever you call it, I'm open. I'm ready to meet my soul connection, my purpose mate, that person that's going to make me better and I make them better, that person that I can build and amplify with, that person that even if the world— I meet them today and the world ends today, we can experience a soul-shattering love. We can get that because it don't take all day. It don't take all day. You just got to be open. And if you see what the vibration on this— or in the world is right now, the vibration in the world is fear. That's why you keep seeing more fear perpetuated. If we raise the love vibration, not just with romantic relationships but to our neighbors, Raise the love vibration. You will see a lot of this foolishness start to settle. Okay, so I love y'all. Have a wonderful, wonderful day, and make a decision today to open your heart to love. Open your heart up to that man that you, you know, you could just feel, you know, the warmth of his body as he gives you a hug to tell you, baby, it's gonna be all right. Open your heart, fellas, to love from that woman that stands behind you and wraps her arms around you and put her hands on your chest and lay her head on your back and say, baby, it's gonna be all right, we got this because we got each other. Okay, love y'all, have a wonderful day. Please like and share. Bye.
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