Tired of attracting the same kind of people?

Hey everyone, it's April Mason here with your ASAP Tip of the Day. Why do you continue to attract the same type of people, yet on the outside you would think, why would these, even these type of people even try to talk to me? Don't they see who I am? I'm gonna answer that for you, but I'm gonna tell you my story first. Years ago when I was working in corporate America in San Francisco, I was dressed to the nines. I had it all together. On the outside, my briefcase, I had my money was right, I had my car, I had all of the things in place. And you would think that I would attract a different kind of guy, but I was still attracting hood dudes and, and, hey shorty, how you doing? I was still attracting the wrong kind of guy. And I was like, why would they even think that they can approach me? And the reason that is, is because you attract who you are at your core, not the wonderful representative that you bring. Because what will happen is you start to want to believe that you're the person that you haven't done the work to totally transition to. You'll transition into that person on the outside, but on the inside you will not— you will not have done your work to be the actual representative that you're presenting. So pretty much you're living— you're fake and you're a fraud. But it's okay. At any point in time, you can be brave enough to say, let me deal with my issues, let me find out who I am so that I can not only just represent you know, the person on the outside, but my core represents that person as well too. So if you're attracting the same type of guys or girls, it's something wrong with you, not them, because you are the common denominator, dear. And a lot of times watching television, we see all of these reality shows and you see these hood chicks, you know, they have these fabulous— well, seemingly, you know, fabulous men that buy them things and they do shopping sprees and all of that. So you feel like, I can just be any old kind of way, you know, and still attract— I want a guy that does those things for me as well too. But think about it. Look at what those women deal with. They haven't done their work. They haven't done their core work, because if they had, they wouldn't be dealing with the foolishness that they're dealing with just to get a bag, just to get, you know, a trip or whatever. They would understand that they're more valuable and have more worth than that. So don't let the hood rats give you hope, baby, on television. It doesn't work like that. If you want something quality, you have to be quality. You can't give the fake facade or the mask and think that I can, you know, put this out there to the world that I am this fabulous guy or girl, but on the inside you're not that, which means once a person meets you and they get to know you, you can't keep up the facade because that's not who you are. You sold them on the representative. So instead of being the representative, just transform into the individual that you're presenting. This is April Mason, and that's your asset tip for the day.