April MasonLove and Life Identity Transfromation Architect

What you’re choosing to entertain is the problem! #motivation #datingadvice

2 May 2025 · 1 min

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In this motivational monologue, the speaker explains that there is a crucial distinction between "attracting" and "entertaining" potential partners. While many people claim they are not responsible for who they attract, the speaker argues that responsibility lies in what you choose to entertain. Using a cup filled with water as a metaphor, the speaker illustrates that the cup contains good, bad, and indifferent men, and the state of the cup (i.e., your internal alignment) determines which type you draw out. Good men exist in the cup, but if you are not aligned with them, you won’t pull them out; instead, you attract a partner who mirrors your current self rather than the partner you say you want. The core message is that aligning your internal state with the kind of partner you desire is essential for attracting the right person.

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There's a difference between attracting and entertaining. And I think people don't understand that. They say, "I'm not responsible for what I attract." But you're responsible for what you entertain. And I always use this analogy, like this cup right here. This cup has water in it. In here, it has good men, bad men, indifferent men, and all kinds of other things in here. Based upon where you are will determine what you're going to pull out of here. It doesn't mean good men don't exist. They in here. You're just not in alignment with them. In order to attract them. I mean, or to entertain them. So you're not even going to pull that out. You're going to pull out somebody that is a mirror to what you are versus what you say you want.