3 Psychological Tricks To Instantly Be More Attractive

Not feeling attractive enough can be a source of insecurity. But luckily, being attractive is less dependent on genetics than many people think. So in this video, we're not going to touch on things outside of your control. Although genes do have an impact, you can make yourself more attractive with the way you dress, your attitude and your actions. So we'll go through three easy ways you can instantly be more attractive, no matter where you're starting from. And for fun, since season five of Lucifer comes out this week, we'll use his character to show these attractive habits. But that said, we're only going to include what will actually work in your real life. And leave out any scenes where his Devil powers magically make women want him.

Hello there. I'm Lucifer. Lucifer.

Morning.

Yes to what? Anything. Still got it.

One of the very first things you'll notice about Lucifer is his style. You see him and instantly have an opinion of him. During this next clip, ask yourself if your first impression would be different if this was how he dressed all the time.

Or was she poisoned too? Why did she survive?

Perhaps the killer simply ran out of thermometers.

While actor Tom Ellis is certainly an attractive man, he does lose some of his sex appeal without Lucifer's style. But that doesn't mean to wear a suit all the time. After all, anyone can wear a suit, and it doesn't automatically make you a sex symbol. The trick is, no matter what your style is, focus on wearing the right fit for your body type and add at least one stylish accessory. In Lucifer's case, he has a few things that separate him from looking like your average working suit. A tight fit, a pocket square, rings, a watch, cufflinks, a five o' clock shadow. People may not notice it consciously, but when you add a few little touches like that, it will change how someone perceives you. Now, that said, you don't need to copy Lucifer's particular style to be attractive. Instead, apply those two rules to whatever your own personal style is. And this doesn't have to be excessive. For example, if you normally wear collared shirts, it's as easy as throwing a $10 pair of suspenders over top before heading to the bar.

I want to talk about the episode that you're shooting now because you look very dapper.

The second thing you can steal from Lucifer to become more attractive is his mindset that flirting is about having fun. Lucifer doesn't take things too seriously. When he flirts, he's playful and focuses on amusing himself. Here's a quick example.

But if this little clue Thing of yours doesn't pan out. These are going back on and they're gonna stay on.

Is that a promise?

I know some people will comment that this only works because Lucifer is a scripted TV show. So here's two quick examples of Craig Ferguson being playful in the same way interpreting something non sexual as sexual.

I'm Southern, we're handsy. We're handsy in the bib family.

I've been south of the Mason Dixon. I know what you're talking about.

Yeah, I kind of dropped the ball, Craig.

I don't think anyone would mind. Just pick it up and keep going.

Now, sexualizing a conversation does run the risk of seeming creepy, but it's also super easy to be playful without being sexual. This can be especially attractive when you first meet someone. Most people dread the standard boring small talk like where are you from and what do you do? So a good trick when flirting is to answer someone's first small talk question playfully. And at least 25% of the small talk questions after that. Here's another quick example from Craig, this time messing around with the often asked, where are you from? I'm from Scotland.

Jersey.

If you can make someone laugh by saying something playful and unexpected, they'll instantly like you more for making the conversation more fun. This will get annoying if you never take anything seriously. But most people go too far the other way. They take too many things too seriously. So being around someone that makes conversation playful is a welcome break from the norm. And it can even create a sense of, ah, I wish I could be like that.

How long have I been out?

Three years.

What?

You're such an ass. Thank you.

As a quick side note, if someone is flirting by fake insulting you like that and your mind goes blank, a smiling thank you is an easy go to response. This can even be an attractive comeback when someone really is trying to insult you. You are a mockery of everything divine.

Thank you.

You got some balls on you, pal.

Oh, thank you very much. But they're really quite average.

When you respond like that, you show that you're confident in who you are and you aren't affected by them. Don't do this. If someone's giving you genuine feedback, it's just a nice one. If your mind goes blank while someone is teasing you while flirting, it's playful. And it also shows you aren't particularly sensitive and that you have confidence in yourself. That unshakable confidence is another attractive aspect of Lucifer's attitude. The quickest way he projects that confidence is by approaching people without hesitation. Whether they're beautiful women or dangerous criminals.

Lucifer, this is a ruthless drug lord with who knows how many armed thugs. You can't just walk in there with your three piece suit and say, hello drug dealers.

I would never do that anymore.

In your own life, avoid the dangerous criminal part and just steal the fearless approach part. Approaching someone you're attracted to without hesitation is a very quick way to display attractive confidence. The mistake most people make when they see someone they're attracted to is they go stand near them and say nothing, hoping that some circumstance will magically lead to them talking to each other. By contrast, Lucifer walks right up and starts a conversation.

Hello again, my little cannonball. Sorry I didn't introduce myself earlier. Lucifer Morningstar.

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