Small Changes That Make A Huge Impact To Your Charisma

There are five personality types that people obsess over, and if you discover which one best matches your unique individual personality, you will be able to tap into the most confident and charismatic version of yourself. But you must be aware that each type comes with a common pitfall that can wind up pushing people away. So in this video, you're going to find out which type best suits you and learn exactly what pitfalls you need to avoid. The first type is the funny type. If this is you, people like you because you make them laugh. I like my donuts so fat, their holes are closed. But of course, funny types don't always have to be positive and bubbly. Sometimes their jokes are sarcastic.

You don't have a license? No. Okay. You can't drink and drive, so what's the point?

And sometimes funny types even roast people.

You should not be watching me before you go to bed. Well, that's not a good image. My wife likes it because it acts as a sort of contraceptive. She knows I'm not gonna.

Now, while this playful teasing can make people like you, you need to be careful not to make people the butt of your jokes too often, which will alienate them over time. For example, watch brand pick on Emily Blunt in this next clip.

I had a real close encounter with a shark. Little low shark. It wasn't. It was about six feet. So did it eat people? Was it that type? Well, it wasn't, but why are you trying to diminish my size? Just a type of fish.

You went near a fish to a funny type. This might seem like just a lighthearted joke, but Emily's defensiveness later suggests that it might have dug a bit too deep.

Don't clap him. Thank you. I'm one of you. I'm here for you. I'm gonna just shit on all of your stories.

So if you are a funny type and you want to do it without making people dislike you, the main thing to focus on is cracking jokes where the punchline builds up the other person, like this. So whether it's a celebrity or not.

It'S about the girl, not her occupation and how similar to you they are. Yes, that's. That's what I'm really looking for.

Now, if you make shorts, type is huge on enthusiasm.

Go, go J. Don't go J. Don't go J.

This is you. You are extremely high in conviction. People want to follow your lead because you are so certain of what you're saying.

I've been put on this planet to protect wildlife and wilderness areas, which, in essence, is going to help humanity. I want to have the purest oceans. I want to be able to drink water straight out of that creek. I want to stop the ozone layer. I want to save the world.

Almost everyone is uncertain of themselves, their values, and the future. So they gravitate towards those people who seem to know exactly who they are, what they want, and what is going to happen.

And they're going to be smoked. October 6th, live on Pay Per View. And I am going to love every second of it. I hope it's a long night.

The pitfall of this type is that you can often miss opportunities for growth. You are so certain that things are going to go the way that you've imagined, that you might overlook your own weaknesses and minimize the competition. So while you look like a phenom when everything is going well, then reality strikes and nothing is certain and it can come back to smack you in the face. This is why if you lean towards the conviction type, it is best to rest that conviction not on guaranteeing specific outcomes, but on guaranteeing your continued effort. And that brings us to the last type, the authentic type. If this is you honesty being real, that's what's paramount. And what's interesting is that people might not like you right away. You might pursue a conflict that most people would sweep under the rug or share your honest opinion when you know the other person disagrees, like Joe Rogan does here, here with a political commentator opposed to gay marriage.

I think of marriage as is a certain thing which is the context for procreation, for the building of the nuclear family. What about people that get married that don't have kids? Are you opposed to that?

Or you might just go off the reservation with a weird sense of humor that the other person maybe doesn't get, but you don't notice.

Why were you going like this with your fingers?

You were pushing up in the air.

Like holding the world, oh, somebody's got to do it. Because, Brendan, that's so good.

If this is you, the good news is that people don't like you because every single moment is wonderful, but because they respect your honesty, you're not trying to get people to like you. And that lets people relax in your presence. They can sense that you aren't looking for validation from them so they can take a deep breath. The pitfall here is that if you are just authentic and you throw everything else out, you might dominate the conversation by talking about things that you care about that nobody else does.

One of the reasons why chimps attack people is because if people give something to someone else and they don't give it to them. They have a real sense of fairness. The evil vicious jealousy. You know, like you see that vicious jealousy in chimpanzees. Imagine being like out there at the supermarket and you're got your bags, you're moving to your car and you see three chimps running your way like oh no.

So if this is you, you of course want to put authenticity first, but social graces need to be a close second. One thing that will help there is purposely pausing in conversations to create space for the other person to re opt into the topic that you may be passionately pursuing. Now of course the point of identifying these types is not to say that one is better than any other. The point is to give yourself permission to lean in the direction of the type that best matches who you are, not to copy someone else. When you do that, your confidence will naturally radiate out from you and blow people away because it is specific to you. And if you feel like you now know your style and want to make the most of it, you may want to join our course, Charisma University. This is our step by step 30 day program that tells you exactly what to do every day to make charisma an unthinking habit. And in the first five days you're going to nail down the charisma type that you most want to lean into with specific advanced guidance to get the most out of your charisma style. Here are just a few things that some of the past members have said and this first comment came from just one week into the program. My two areas of focus are connection and authenticity. While going through the First Impressions module, I've been able to get into conversation with people that I never would have before. The lesson on asking questions to draw out values is gold. Thanks to everyone who developed the course. It has already been life changing and I can't wait to see what is next. Another member wrote in I wasn't truly confident. I was constantly seeking validation and care too much about other people's opinions. But now my life has improved tremendously because of Charisma University. I find it way easier to connect with people, to have great interactions, and to be happy even if things don't go the way I want them to. Taking this course has been one of the most impactful decisions of my life. I cannot recommend it enough. And lastly, one member wrote, before Charisma University, I sucked at having conversations and I had low confidence around people. I am way more confident now, having gone through the daily action guides and I can see a big difference in the attention and respect that I get. It makes life so much more fun. I don't think it's an overstatement to say Charisma is literally a gateway to getting anything you want in life. So thank you for making Charisma University. Everything inside Charisma University is built in an order that is easy to digest and learn, and it takes just 20 minutes a day. The largest difference between what you see here on the YouTube channel and the course is this structure. Charisma University turns Charisma into something that you live and you're practicing daily. So it is guaranteed to change your life after just 30 days. And if you take the whole course and don't think it's worth every penny, we actually have a 60 day money guarantee. You can give yourself the full refund right from inside the program. So if you want to check out and see if Charisma University is right for you with absolutely no risk, click the link on the screen now or in the description below. Either way, I hope that you enjoy this video and I will see you in the next one.