In this instructional video, Chloe Spillane shares a personal, non‑clinical approach to managing intrusive thoughts that often arise in stressful work or daily situations. She begins by disclosing her own history with depression and emphasizing that she is not a mental‑health professional, positioning the advice as a personal strategy rather than therapy. She then introduces the 5‑4‑3‑2‑1 grounding technique—a sensory‑based mindfulness exercise that anchors attention to the present moment. Chloe walks through each step in real time, naming five visual items, four tactile items, three auditory cues, two tastes, and one smell (or variations thereof) that are immediately available to her. She explains how performing this rapid sensory inventory interrupts the spiral of intrusive thinking, restores focus, and can be applied anywhere: at a desk, during meetings, on a commute, or whenever overwhelming thoughts surface. The video’s core message is that a simple, structured grounding practice can help individuals regain presence, reduce mental distress, and improve productivity without requiring professional intervention.
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If something's happening that's quite uncomfortable outside of my work life, I can get really intrusive thoughts, and those intrusive thoughts can be very debilitating and take over the work that I'm trying to do. As someone who has had mental health issues throughout my life and was diagnosed with depression when I was in my late teens, I'm very conscious of my mental health and how I'm feeling on a regular basis. With that being said, I'm not a psychologist and I'm not here to diagnose or assess any of you. What I'm here to do is share a strategy that I do that works for me that might work for you too. You might have heard of it 4, but it's the 5-4-3-2-1 technique. And this is perfect for any of you that find yourself in a work setting. You might just be sitting at your desk. It could be a meeting with your manager or your team, or maybe even it's when you're going to work. You've got impending tasks or deadlines coming up that you can't get out of your head, things you can't control, but those thoughts become so powerful that you feel that they are having a negative impact on your day-to-day work. With this method, what you're going to do is this. Okay, so you're sitting there, you're doing your thing, The intrusive thoughts start to come in. Oh my God, I can't stop thinking about this thing. I can't stop thinking about this thing. I'm just going to spiral and bury myself into this thought. No, we're not going to do that. First of all, list 5 things that are in your sight and say them out loud. For me right now, that would be this: wallet, sunglasses, lipstick, diary, laptop. Immediately, I already feel more present. Then you're going to take it a step further and list 4 things that you can touch right now. For me, that would be chair, ring, jeans, scarf. Then if you want to go further, list 3 things that you can hear right now. Then you want to list 2 things that you can taste. And then one thing you can smell, or you can do two things you can smell, one thing you can taste, whatever works for you. But doing that 5, 4, 3, 2, 1 method is going to bring you back to the present moment, which is all you need to do to reset your mind, to remove those intrusive thoughts, and to get you focused back on what is happening right now. Being present with the commute, what's happening on the bus, what's happening on your drive, whatever it is, that's where you need your head to be to get you away from those intrusive thoughts.