Release what you can and can't control, otherwise you'll drive yourself crazy. #careercoach

To feel any kind of relief in your job search and then success, you need to be able to surrender to what you can and can't control. Sometimes, no matter how fucking hard you work and how much you do all those right things, sometimes it's just not gonna work out for you. And that's okay. It's normal. We try to control that final outcome where really we have no control over that. Regardless of whether you send through the perfect application, you don't know whether they're gonna put that through. Regardless of whether you show up and do the best interview you could ever do, You don't know if you're going to get the offer. The more you're able to surrender to that fact, the more you're most likely going to see success because the energy you're projecting is more from that place of, well, I'm doing what I can and I know I'm doing all the right things and more things are coming for me, rather than that desperate, frantic energy of, well, I'm doing everything. Why the fuck isn't this working? Why aren't I getting a job? Feeling that you're doing everything but not getting anywhere Look at again what you can and can't control and just try to surrender to that can't control piece and make sure you're doing everything you can in the control lane, if you get what I mean.