Bringing Desire Without Expectations

If you're in a relationship, start to bring expectationless desire to her on a more consistent basis with touch different conversations, with creating different scenarios, with saying what you want to do later without it needing to go anywhere and start to notice how she responds. At first she might push you away, she might be a little apprehensive, but eventually she's going to start to settle into like, oh, he keeps bringing his arousal and his desire to me, but it's not needing to go anywhere. If you are doing this in a way that is consistent, consistent and regular that she will start take things to the next step on a natural basis of like, no, maybe we should go upstairs now. So who knows how that's going to play out? But start to do this. Practice every single day finding opportunities to bring your spontaneous desire, your arousal to your partner without the energy that you expected to go somewhere.