A short conversational excerpt from the YouTube video "Master Your Emotions" (Connor Beaton). The speakers discuss emotional presence and boundaries in intimate relationships, emphasizing that men should contain emotions, set standards about acceptable behavior, and hold dominion/mastery over their emotional responses so partners feel met and respected.
One of the biggest.
Fundamental pieces that women will tell me time and time and time and time again is that he couldn't be with me emotionally. He didn't care about how I felt, or he wasn't able to meet me emotionally. My emotions didn't have any containment from him. He never set any boundaries with them. He never said something wasn't okay.
He let.
Me go emotionally. And no woman wants to feel that way in a relationship.
You speak.
And have some standards about what's acceptable and not acceptable within the context of the relationship.
If you tolerate.
Bad behavior from you or from her.
She will lose respect.
And trust in you.
You have to be.
In charge of your own charge. You, as a man, need to have some level of dominion of mastery of fluency.