Connor Beaton argues that red pill tactics prey on anxious women and leave men feeling empty despite short-term success. Real connection requires secure attachment, not avoidance or manipulation.
Most gurus over in the red pill circles, I should say, teach men how to switch to avoidant behaviors, how to use avoidant behaviors, in fact, to then prey upon anxiously attached women who are insecure, who are otherwise very kind and very sweet, but are already hurt and are afraid, and then to prey upon them, pit them against each other, and then emotionally coerce them into all kinds of sexual shenanigans. And it just turns these men into people they don't want to be, which is why they're in it for a couple years. And yeah, they usually have more sex, but then they start to really be disgusted by themselves, themselves and very unhappy because all they're doing is going through one relationship after another, and that's not what they want either. So then they start looking for another answer. So, guys out there, if you're anxiously attached, becoming avoidant is not the answer. Becoming afraid of women is not the answer. Fear is not the answer. Manipulation is not the answer. Women out there, same thing. If you've been hurt by an avoidant man, becoming manipulative and hurtful yourself is not the answer. Do not be afraid. Secure attachment is where you're looking for.
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