Monologue-style YouTube video (by Anwar White) giving dating and life advice to daughters of narcissistic fathers. Main guidance: go fully no contact with a narcissistic father before dating to allow identity shift from ‘daughter’ to ‘grown woman’. Also includes targeted advice for Black women: if over 30 and earning six figures, consider freezing eggs because Black men on average marry later (speaker cites marriage-age differences), so family planning timelines may differ.
Okay, someone said dating advice for a daughter of a narcissistic father. Great question. One, you'll have to go no contact with him.
First and foremost. Foremost, if you are not no contact with your narcissistic father.
You'Re not ready to date.
You're not ready to date. It's the first step. If you don't do that, you will always be looking for your narcissistic father. And these men, because we are creatures of habit, and even though intellectually we know that these guys are not great for us, emotionally we will be leaning toward them because that is all that we know.
So you have to go no contact so that you have the time and the space to shift your identity from daughter to grown ass woman.
If you're a black woman and you make over six figures and you're 30 years old, you need to freeze your eggs. I'm just going to call it out.
Y' all keep on talking about this t.
Why? Well, 92% of black women are marrying black men. And what you need to understand is that the average age for black men to marry is 35. All other men 30 years old.
So if you want a black man, and some of y', all, even if I even yell it from the rooftops talking about date all men, you're gonna have to wait.
Till they're ready. Because a man will never want to start a family until he feels that he's stable and self actualized. And it takes black men longer to feel that way because of all of the.
Challenges and hurdles that he has to go.
So I, I just want to let y' all know, if I were a black woman, that's what I would do.
