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Advice for black transwoman

Name: Advice for black transwoman
Uploaded: 2024-11-29T17:00:28+00:00
Duration: 1 min 14 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short YouTube advice segment by Anwar White addressing dating and relationship guidance for Black trans women. Core recommendations: prefer public…

29 Nov 2024 · 1 min

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A short YouTube advice segment by Anwar White addressing dating and relationship guidance for Black trans women. Core recommendations: prefer public dates (avoid in-home/hidden dates), wait at least three dates before going home with someone, expect/require PDA early to gauge partner readiness, and be cautious about partners described as "DL" (closeted), gangsters, certain labor-worker types, and specific cultural/racial references (mentions of Middle Eastern men). The tone is colloquial, cautionary, and prescriptive.

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Mind of Mendoza said, do you have any advice for black trans women? Girl, of course. I got you a couple of things. One, always go on public dates with these men. Don't let them hide you. A lot of them will want to just hide you in the closet. Girl. No shade. Or have in home dates with you. Never go home with a guy. At least before the first three dates. That's number one. Number two, like I said, public dates on date two or three, you want to do you want to have PDA with him? If he can't give you pda, he's not ready to be with you. And then number four.
You have to. There are certain guys that are checking for you. A lot of the. The T girls the dolls will get with guys that are DL. The gangsters, the construction workers. Like the mask. Mask. Mask don't do that. Yes, they will D you down, but it's almost like a hate. So you don't want that.
Specifically, Middle Eastern men are very much into the. Into the dolls. Guys with.
No shade. Rat faces. I don't know how else to explain it. My sisters tell me if they got a rat face. They're into you. I don't know what the math is, girl. I'm not into.
Transgender calculus, but this just works.