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Ambition

Name: Ambition
Uploaded: 2022-11-01T13:36:42+00:00
Duration: 58 s
Channel: Anwar White
Description: A short spoken monologue advising listeners — particularly women — to reconsider prioritizing ‘ambition’ in a partner. The speaker distinguishes ambition…

1 Nov 2022 · 1 min

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A short spoken monologue advising listeners — particularly women — to reconsider prioritizing ‘ambition’ in a partner. The speaker distinguishes ambition (framed as putting goals ahead of relationships) from a growth mindset (framed as continual self-improvement) and cites high-profile examples to illustrate potential relationship trade-offs. The piece recommends valuing growth-mindedness over ambition for better relationship outcomes.

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Hey girl. Are you looking for a man with ambition? Is that something that is on your dream guy checklist? Well, if so, I want you to reconsider it. And the reason why I'm saying that is a man with ambition will always put his goals or his ambitions first and put you second. And if you don't believe me, talk to the ex wives of Jeff Bezos, Bill Gates and Elon Musk. Yeah, what we are looking for is someone who has a growth mindset. A growth mindset is someone who wants to improve himself day after day after day. Someone who is ambitious is looking for something outside of themselves and it's not fully, fully fully realized within. I hope this helps as you're starting to evaluate men and what you're looking for, because oftentimes I see people over evaluate or over emphasize one thing and underestimate other things that don't actually correlate with successful relationship outcomes.