Are guys bad at planning dates?

Black magic said, are guys bad at planning dates or is he just wishy washy? Most of these guys just aren't serious, right? It's not that they're bad at it. Men, when they're focused on something and they want to do it, they'll just do it, but they don't want to do it. A lot of men are unserious because a lot of men are scared to fall in love, right? And so that's why most of them will not put in a lot of effort in what they're doing, especially when it pertains to their love lives. So please understand that A lot of the girls are like, oh, my God, you know, I'm not worth it. Because he's not doing that. No girl. He not going to do it with the next woman and the woman after that and the woman after that. Yeah.