Short YouTube video (by Anwar White) introducing and defining "BDB" (between date behavior). The speaker contrasts focusing on time spent on dates with prioritizing how a partner behaves between dates, arguing that between-date interactions better indicate long-term suitability because partners spend most time apart. Uses Carrie and Big as an example and ends with a call-to-action to book a coaching call.
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I knew you would do this. I knew it. Carrie, I'm sorry. I am humiliated. I'm sorry. I'm sorry. Come on. Carrie, wait. I'm sorry. Car. No.
So Charlotte's no in this clip. Always gags me, always gives me goosebumps. But the reason I'm making this video is because I always remind myself every time I see Carrie and Big on the screen together about this concept that I've coined called bdb. And the definition of BDB is between date behavior. So in the relationship between Carrie and Big, she was always hyper focused on the time that they had together while they were on the date. And so many women actually date this way. And I don't want you to date this way. I actually don't care what happens on the date. I want you to prioritize the BDB what happens between the dates, because that's what's going to actually give you a better understanding of if this guy is going to be a great boyfriend or not. When you're in a relationship with a man, 90% of the time you will not be in his physical presence. So you actually have to feel super connected to him while you all are not together. And that's why the between date behavior is so important when you're navigating dating. And in relationships, most women don't prioritize that. And because they're so hyper focused on the time that they have together and it's so amazing and they get enraptured by it all. I don't want you to date that way. If you want to learn how to date differently, definitely book a call and I can teach you how to do that. But ultimately, let me know, do you focus on the date or the bdb?
