Anwar White argues that butterflies in your stomach around a dating partner isn't a good sign. A real connection should feel calm and authentic, not like you're performing for someone. Nervousness means something's off.
Hey, girl. Contrary to what the Disney movies and the rom coms will make you think, you're actually not supposed to be feeling any sort of butterflies when you're with your guy or talking to your guy or dating your guy. There should be a resounding calmness and centeredness in how you are feeling, because it just feels right. I always think of butterflies like actors that are about to go on stage and perform. Yes, you should be nervous because you're so focused on how the other how the crowd is thinking about you and you want to perform. Well, you shouldn't have to perform for your dates. You should just be and feel confident in being your full, authentic self. Another way that I think about this is like, pretend you're back in high school and you're talking to the quarterback of the varsity, you know, football team. You might be a little bit nervous because you think that that person is better than you. If you're thinking that the person that you're dating is better than you, then that is not your person. Yeah. I hope this helps you follow for more.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
