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Some girls really do only talk to one dude. Y' all just don't believe it. Cause y' all be talking to 50 hoes. So let's really talk about this because most women are actually focused on one man, if they're talking to a man at all. And as a dating coach for smart and successful black and brown women, my focus is to actually curb this. You do not serve yourself when you are focused on one man. This is why I teach Olympic dating. I want my clients to have a gold medalist, a silver medalist, and a bronze medalist. And the reason I say that is because, one, it protects your heart. But two, when one guy drops off, and most guys will, you won't be tripping about that. You'll have a couple of other guys that you can engage with and still feel good about your dating life. Here's the thing. Women have been conditioned and programmed to, you know, not do this because it disempowers them. If they had all this power and they were engaging with multiple, it would mean that men would have to step up to win a woman's attention. When we think about investors, the best investors diversify. They always have multiple stocks and bonds going on. And I want you to do the same. In your, what I call love portfolio. You should have multiple men that you're talking to at all times. Again, it will protect you. I think about dating multiple men in one way. You can date one man and focus on one man. And I think that that's like driving in a residential area going 25 miles per hour. Or you can be on the highway, on the freeway with a three or four lane highway and drive really fast and get to your destination faster. The choice is always yours. Been doing this for over a decade, and dating multiple men has helped so many of my clients get their guys in six months or less. So I hope this helps you and let me know how you date.