A single mother with a 7-year-old considers dating a divorced dad with three kids from different mothers. She worries about men who have children with multiple partners and questions whether someone like that can actually settle down.
Thoughts on dating a divorced dad of three kids are 13, 11 and 9. I'm a single mother of a 7 year old.
Here's what I will say.
And this is no shade, but I need to know exactly how many mothers that guy has with the three kids. Because if he has multiple mothers with three kids I kind of want us to stay away.
I'm good with one or two kids, but you don't want to be with someone that is like a Cam Newton or a Nick Cannon or a Tyreek Hill or an Elon Musk. Many of those guys are breeders. Also, I need to know the age of him. If he's in his 40s, fine. If he's in his 30s with three kids and multiple, you know, mothers, co parents, then he's on a starter track.
To becoming a breeder. And you don't want to be with a breeder because they will never self actualize and they will never be ready to settle down because those kinds of men, the Cam Newton, the Nick Cannons of the world, they will always impregnate other women. They will always impregnate other women because they are trying to convince themselves that they are the men that their friend groups don't believe that they are.
Yeah. So.
Don'T do it. What did they say.
During elementary school on Dare Week? Just say no.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
