Dating Advice About Light Skinned and Biracial Men #datingadviceforblackwomen #blackgirldating

And I want to let you all know that biracial and lighter skinned men are often dangerous. I was having a live last night and I was telling the ladies in the live about how we need to put lighter skinned men or biracial men in the same category that we put doctors, surgeons, pilots, military, police, firemen. They have God complexes. And the reason why that is the case is because they have a variety of different privileges. Pretty privilege in the black community, white privilege in the black community and male privilege. Secondly, their mothers, especially if their mothers are white, will enmesh them. They will raise them to be entitled where everyone is doing things for them so they don't have to work on themselves. That's number two. Number three. And this is really important because a lot of people don't understand this or think about this. Biracial or lighter skinned men have the entitlement of a white man, but the trauma of a black man. So oftentimes what will happen is that will create narcissism and it's very dangerous because that narcissism will translate or play itself out in domestic abuse or violence as well as emotional abuse. Super important. I mean I want you to think about the Chris Browns. I want you to think about the Drakes of the world. I mean there are many others. Jesse Williams, please let me know what your experience has been with light skinned men in the comments. If you think that what I'm saying is in line or not. I hope this is helpful as you navigate your dating journey. And again, this is not all lighter skin or biracial men, but it's a good portion of them and I want you to be careful out there. I hope this helps.