Dating coach Anwar White says apps are losing 10-15% effectiveness yearly and suggests meeting men in person instead. He maps specific venues by preference: Asian men at boba shops and karaoke, Black men at Essence Fest and cookouts, nerds at Comic-Con, short men at hockey games and Disneyland.
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14 years
About 10–15% per year
30% decline
February 19, 2024
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Girl, the apps are not apping. Now, as a dating coach for 14 years, these things come in cycles, right? And every year since the pandemic, it's been going down about 10 to 15%. This year for the January dating Olympics, it was down 30%. So my whole program is getting revamped to make sure that my girls are getting their guy. But with that said, girl, we're gonna need to touch grass. We're gonna need to touch men. We need to Going to. Need to go outside. And so I wanted to share with you the places that I want you to go to get your guy. Now, you know your fairy guy brother has you, girl. Because I know y' all have certain types. So I'm going to give you where you should go based on your type, okay? Because I see some girls are like, anwar. Girl, I like an Asian guy, okay? So if you like an Asian guy, girl, you need to go to Uniqlo, you need to go get Boba, and you need to go to karaoke, girl. Not karaoke, karaoke. Now, for the girls who like the nerds, I need you going to the Renaissance fairs. I need you going to Comic Con or comic stores. Comic book stores, girl. Anywhere with a wi Fi, girl. No shade. Oh, yeah. The other place that you can go to is either the Apple Store or the Genius bar. Girl. That's where they are, okay? All right, so for the Indian guys, if you're feeling the Indian guys, girl, you might need an Indian girlfriend, but girl, Indian weddings and going to movie theaters that play Bollywood movies, girl. Cricket games, Best Buy, and also, like, motorcycle stores, girl. They love motorcycles, girl. Okay, now if you're looking for a black guy, because I know some of you are, and that's great. Girl. Volunteer, okay? You want to go to a volunteer, you want to go to, like, kind of very niche home gatherings and cookouts and barbecues, and then you also want to go to, like, black festivals, like Essence Fest, Afro Punk, Afro Fest, those sorts of festivals, okay? Now if you're looking for a white guy, girl, you need to go outside. It's either hiking, biking, dog park, okay? Or some of the interesting sports like baseball and golf, okay? They also. You can also go to, like, an upscale grocery store, like Whole Foods, or you can go to Bass Pro shop, girl, no shade. Now, if you're looking for an Hispanic man, girl. Salsa classes, church, Catholic church, girl. And any sort of soccer games, okay? Now if you're looking for a short man, girl, Short kings, baby. Baby packing, girl, you want to go to, like, a hockey game or a soccer game because those are sports where they can do something. A lot of short guys will be at the gym getting stacked so they can pick you up girl. And they might be at Disneyland because that's where they can ride all the brides. Girl. No shade.
Now Middle Eastern men, girl. Go to the mall, the luxury stores, girl. Go to like legit hookah places and airports. That's where you're gonna find your Middle Eastern men. Alright girl, I hope that this was helpful for you. Now I want you to do me a favor. I feel like I've been shadowbanned and a lot of creators have this month for so for some reason. Please like comment and share this post so that I can get out of my TikTok jail. Alright, thank you.
