Anwar White argues that chemistry is a trap because charismatic men can fake instant connection. She recommends her three, two, one funnel instead: prioritize whether men show up and stay emotionally available before deciding if they're a real match.
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Hey, girl, if you are dating based on chemistry, you might be actually hurting your chances of finding your forever guy. I mean, let's be honest. If that worked, you probably would be booed up by now, but I don't think that you are, or I wouldn't be on your fyp. So let's talk about why I'm saying this. Well, girl, at the end of the day, a lot of narcs, a lot of toxic men, and a lot of serial daters date well, which means that they can connect with anyone and are very charismatic. They. And I'm sure those are not the guys that you kind of want to be connected to. One of the things that I teach my clients is to date differently, which means having a strategy. I call my strategy the three, two, one funnel. And if you're interested in learning more about that, you can go into my bio and I'll give you a free training. But at the end of the day, it's about making sure that these men are showing up for you and also emotionally available for your needs, first and foremost, and then figuring out if they're a match afterward. Very different than how most people date.