A short livestream by dating coach Anwar White (recorded Jan 14, 2025) in which she gives playful, provocative dating advice to women of color. The host coins and repeats the phrase "white boy winter," urges viewers to actively pursue white men ("your homework is to catch a white man in the wild"), prescribes wardrobe/display tactics (shorts, Canada Goose jacket, UGGs, pink socks) as attention signals, and frames interracial dating as a political strategy to shift power over a multi-year horizon ("for the next five to ten years"). The tone is humorous, instructive, and provocative.
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"for the next five to ten years"
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Welcome, welcome, welcome. I hope everyone is doing well. Good to see you all. Hey, boss. Hey. Save the tatas. Hey. Consideration. Good evening, everyone. Welcome, welcome, welcome. Happy Saturday. I usually don't come on on Saturdays, but I was supposed to come on last night, but, girl, I was tired. Honey, she's a working girl.
Yeah. So I'm here tonight and I'm actually really mad at you all. I'm mad at you all because you should not be online with me on a Saturday night. You should not be hanging out with some gay guy on a Saturday night. You should be with men, straight men that want to be your boyfriend and your husband. So I'm already mad at you.
Yeah. Stop hanging out with gay guys on a Saturday night. Do you hear me?
Please and thank you.
Someone said it's snowing, girl. If you see. If you see snow outside, that is your sign from God that you need to be with a white man.
Do you hear me?
White everywhere.
White everywhere. Take it as a sign, girl.
White boy winter. That's what it's giving.
You hear me?
Someone said it's cold. Let a white man warm you up, girl.
Do you want to know how to catch him in the chat? Let me know if you need to know how to catch a white man in this. In this white boy winter. Give me a hashtag, catch him.
I'm not gonna share. I'm not gonna share with you how to catch him until I see some hashtags.
Because some of y' all need a white man. No shade. Yes. White boy winter. Okay, honey, the girls want to catch him. Like, Pokemon, apparently, honey. And y' all want to catch him as if they ran away from the plantation.
Okay, so this is what you're gonna do. And this works every.
Time, girl. You. You hear me? Okay. So you gotta do what they do in the winter, girl. What is that? You need to go outside in this snow in some shorts. Because that's what they do, girl. And like attracts like.
You hear me? When they see you in those shorts, girl, they already know. Oh, she's one. She's one of us. Oh, she wants it, honey.
Oh, okay. Okay. I need to get with her. This my kind of girl.
Do you hear me? Yes, honey. The shorts just like these, girl. Some of y' all should have them longer, but for me, I need them a little shorter, girl. Just like that, girl.
Yes, honey. Someone said I'm not catching pneumonia, but I need you to catch a white man.
Catch them both, girl. Gotta catch them all. Just like Pokemon. Catch a pneumonia.
And a white Man.
Yes, honey. Shorts in that, that Canada Goose jacket, girl.
Yes, honey. And the, and the ugg boots. Yes, wear my ugg boots, girls. And get into these pink socks, girl. Cuz I'm a lady. I'm a lady, honey.
Yes.
Yes, honey. All right, so your homework this weekend. Because I give my girls homework. If you're in my program every week I'm giving you homework. You gotta do something. You can't be at home all day watching, you know, corn with a P AKA HBO Max and eating Haagen Dazs every night. Girl, I need you out. I need you talking to these men, honey, your homework is to catch a white man in the wild.
I want it serving National Geographic. Do you hear me?
All right now. All right now. Someone said cutting up came just in time, honey. I was just telling my best friend because she's like, girl, you're getting so popular. What are you going to do with all this power? I said, girl, you know what I want with this all this, all this power, what I'm trying to do here? Because here's the gag. The only way that we are going to take the white supremacy and the patriarchy away is for women of color to take these men, take them all, honey, and then you take control of this world.
That's what I told my best friend, girl. That's what I told my best friend. So this is the start. Lord knows no shade to my white sisters, but y' all not doing it. Y' all haven't done it. Y' all never will do it. So my, my women of color need to do it. You Indian girl, work. You black girl, work. My Latina sisters, y' all better work. My East Asian sisters, especially, y' all better.
So that's why I do what I do. And honey, I believe if I keep on doing it for the next five to ten years, girl.
You know all those white stars on the American flag, they're going to turn black.
Yes, honey.
Yes. All right. Yes, honey. One star at a time. That's exactly. That's exactly right. Okay, okay. For the girls that just came in and who don't know what the hell I'm talking about and who don't know who I am, my name is Anwar White. I am a dating coach. Even though it doesn't sound like that, I'm a dating coach for black and brown women, and I help them.
