Dating Q and A 02-12-24

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Hello, hello, hello.

Hello. Hello. Hello, everyone. Welcome, welcome, welcome. I hope everyone is doing well. Good to see you all.

Hello, hello. We're gonna see. We're gonna wait till everybody comes in. I hope everyone is doing well. It's been a crazy week. I hope you guys had fun during the Super Bowl. Hello, my loves. Hello, everyone. Good to see you. Let me see what y' all are talking about, honey. Now, were you getting your guy during the super bowl, honey? Were you, you know, getting your flirt on? Were you at a house party? Were you at a bar, a club, watching the game and talking to the boys or not? What's the tea? We're gonna have some fun, honey. Yes, honey. We're meeting on Monday because Sunday was Super Bowl Sunday, honey. And guess what?

I was busy, honey. I was watching that Super Bowl. I was watching that halftime show with Usher's half, half built up chest, honey. No shade.

Girl.

Yes, honey, yes. Let me see what y' all are talking about, honey. Let me see what the girl. What the girls were up to. Ordinary else that I was with my guy that your videos helped me get. I know that's right, girl. I know that's right. One thing that I've learned is that now that I'm blowing up, people giving me a lot of shit. And I want you to know, ladies, like, if you look at all my videos, if you listen to all my podcasts, girl, I'm giving you the formula. I'm giving you all the tea, right? So check those out. I'm really giving you a lot of shit. So for those of you that don't know me, my name is Anwar White. They call me Coach Anwar or your fairy godbrother. And I'm just here to spill tea on dating and love and relationships and men or women depending on or anything in between. We're in 2024, trying to be as tolerant, open, and accepting as possible.

And so generally, I come on here just to, like, answer questions. Yeah. Ordinary El said, giving free game. And we love you for that. Thank you, girl. I try to be as giving and as generous as possible. I just did.

A video about how a lot of black girls aren't really taught how to date or, like, you know, separated from boys. And so many black women, you know, are kind of coming at the game at a deficit. And so I hope through my videos and my podcast that you, you know, we're, like, filling those voids so that you can really do this thing in a way that you feel empower. And empowered. In control of. Yeah, more than anything else. So let me see what the girls are talking about. Hello, Tiffany, Shani. Eyes have it. Marquesa, Betty. Hey Jordan Girl. Good evening Dulce. Good to see you, girl. Blue. Rashonda, Nikki, Brittany. My God, I feel like Whitney. Remember when Whitney Houston got her award and she was like Sharonda Blue. Da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da da. That's what I'm doing. Hey Ms. G. Brianna, Sharon, Shani, Orin, Nathani, Michelle.

Yeah. Hey beautiful blackbird. Akima said, will this life be saved? Yes, generally now that I have my, my social media assistant, generally what she does is she will put these lives not on like TikTok or IG, but on my YouTube channel. So if you haven't subscribed to that yet, definitely go to the link in my bio and there should be a place to subscribe to it so that you will be able to check out all of these lives if you are not staying up for it because you're a golden girl and you go to bed at 10:30pm Eastern.

Girl, stay up and have fun with us. It's a slumber party, girl. The Kima said and you said my name right? Oh, we besties now. We better be honey, we better be. Sharon, Shawnee, Elle, Blue Sky, Shirley. Okay, let me see what the girls are saying. Hi Joanne. Alyssa said, loved your new video. I can relate to not dating young as a black woman. Yes girl, Picasso said, hi. So happy to see you. Listen to your podcast with Viola. So good. Yes, miss Phyla is everything. She is a colleague of mine, her name is sheisphylla. F I L A definitely follow her. She's all about that black girl self care. So definitely check that out. Mahogany said Fairy Godbrother. Hello, hello, hello, hello. Okay, we love sunshine, said coach. So I'm dating. She said dating. Oh, when we have this girl we already know a shade. No shade. This Mexican guy but I seen his stuff and I'm not as attracted anymore. He gives me the ick. Especially when he tries to talk sex. Am I the problem? Well girl, when you said you've seen his stuff, what was the reaction? And girl, inquiring minds want to know what, what stuff did you see and what did it look like? Girl, some of the girls are thirsty honey. They haven't seen anything in a long time. So give the girls a little bit more tea. Yeah, I am. The queen said you give some of the most real advice you can find. I try my best girl. Even Though some of the people really don't like me for it. But it is what it is, honey. Yeah, the Tish chick said, how long should I hold off on giving up the cookie? Well, girl, you a grown ass woman, so I can't tell you when you should or should not give your cookie away. You get to figure that out, honey.

I will say as a dating coach, though, that having sex early on.

Doesn'T really, like, help your. Your courtship because it's like you're giving girlfriend benefits away for free. So there's no incentiviz. He's not incentivized to want to be committed to you. You know what I mean?

Okay, let me see. We love sunshine. Said his pecker. Lol. I am used to a little bigger, even thicker. But, you know, here's the thing, girl. Here's what you have to. Here's what you have to figure out.

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You have to see, like, what the true experience is. Yeah. Because no, shade, sometimes the guys are like. They're like, average, but they, like, really know how to work it. And they hid in the spots that you didn't think that they were gonna hit. Right. And they might be doing other stuff that really does please you and satisfy you. So your overall experience is amazing and great.

You know, some of these guys.

They might be bigger, but they're like. They're just boom, boom, boom, but they're not really hitting the walls. Do you know what I mean?

Do you know what I mean? Do you remember in like 1988, 1989, and some of those eastern, eastern Germans were hitting that Berlin Wall and hitting it and knocking it all the way down? Honey, this is what you want these men to do, honey. You don't want them just going boom, boom, boom, boom, boom. I say all this, and in a more serious note, I'm saying all this to say that.

Sometimes it takes a month or two to get to gain sexual chemistry with your guy. And so oftentimes, some of my clients will get into relationships, and then the sexual chemistry won't be there. But then they learn each other. They learn each other's body, and they know how to satisfy each other. So just because it's average, you know, doesn't mean it is, you know, the worst thing ever. Yeah. And I know that's probably not what you want to hear, but that's what I got to give you, girl, because that's the tea. Yeah.

Okay, let me see what the. What the girls are talking about. Ta. Hey, girl. Lexi said hey. I was thinking of you. Today. Love the last podcast. Thank you, girl. Stephanie said, you're awesome. Thank you. Stephanie said, Had a gal. Super Bowl. It was dope. Good, girl. Good.

Chrissy said, we got the Internet working today, girl. I was out and about on Saturday, girl. That Internet was acting a fool, girl. I was. It was highly embarrassing.

Yeah. Oh, my God. The girls are cracking up. The girls are built up. The girls are backed up. Nya Said, what's the tea on construction workers? I'm always going to be a fan of blue collar guys. They're hard workers. And I know for many women of color who are also hard workers, you need somebody that's going to work harder than you. And a lot of these guys will do that. They'll put in the hours, like outside of the home, and then they'll come home. And then, girl, they come home, they're cutting the grass, they're taking out the trash, girl. It's like part of their job. There's like, you know, there's no delineation. There's no differentiation. They just, they out of the home, they're working in the home, they're working. You want somebody that's going to do that. You want a worker, right. You don't want a princess. Yeah. So, you know, I love the men that are able to do that. So I'm always, I'm always going to recommend kind of guys that are more blue collar. Yeah. Eram Said, where does your name originate from? It's cool. It is Arabic. Yeah. I was named after Anwar Sadat. Shani Said, how do you attract a blue collar man, Anwar? I'm a city girl. He's country. Well, it sounds like you've already attracted one, right.

Now. City girl and country are different things.

Here's what I want you to understand. I think it's important to realize that a lot of girls think, oh, my God, we have to have the exact same interest. You don't. Your partner needs to be someone who loves you and supports you and motivates you and accepts you. That's it.

Just because you, like, you know, traveling abroad doesn't mean that he has to. Right. There are things that you will introduce to him, just like there are things that he will introduce to you. Right. So I think it's just important to understand that, that, that, that is kind of part of the partner.

Being in a partnership with someone. Okay. Nakima said, can we talk about dating abroad? I live in Mexico and I can't with the natives. And I'm built to be a cartel bay girl, not cartel Bay, girl.

Not that.

You don't have to date anybody that you don't want to. Yeah. Leah says, how long should it take someone to you meet online to ask you out? Maximum a week. Presley said, how do you handle rejection? I'm having a tough time. Well, first of all, I don't even think about, like, I don't even know that word, like, rejection. There's no such thing like that to me because I always kind of frame or reframe it as, like, it's not a match. It's. Or depending on how the guy shows up, he may not be ready. And that's okay, too. Most of these guys aren't ready. Y' all thinking, oh, my God, like, something's wrong with me. No, most of the time, these guys aren't ready, and. And something's wrong with them.

Yeah. So hope that's helpful.

Girl. Jordan said, I got a new puppy. We decided to go outside, and the men were flocking. Yes, honey. What I love about pets and plans is that it requires you to show up for another entity, another being. And it almost replicates.

You know, how you would be in a relationship. Right. The thoughtfulness, the caring, the dependability. It's all very important. Not to mention, like, those sorts of things will bring in guys. Like, if you're gardening, if you're going to Garden Places, Home Depot, and you're in the garden section, you'll be able to connect with guys in such a different way. Am I saying get a dog to get a man? No. But I will tell. I will tell you this. I got two dogs, I got a man. Shortly after that.

Yeah. Krista said, Escher can still get it. Woo, child. Okay, girl, you can have him. Yeah. Jess said, yes. Been binging the podcast. I love it, girl. Thank you so much. The podcast is called get yout Guy Coaching. Check it out, girl. Um, you know, we. We try to spill as much tea as possible there. If you like the lives, if you like the videos, you'll love the podcast.

Yanni said, how much to book a session? I have a couple of questions, so the sessions are not for your questions. That's why I have these lives. You can put your questions in here. The consultations are for people that want to professionally work with me. Okay. So there are two ways this will happen, right? Depending on your application, you will either be directly lined up for a consult with me or.

There will be a video that you'll go through. And depending on if you want to get into one of my programs, you will book what I Call a decision call, which will be a 15 minute call where you will ask the questions that you might have about the programs and make a decision on that call. You will need to kind of watch the online consultation video first before booking the decision call then. Okay, all of this is free, but many of you probably don't want to work with me professionally and that's totally fine. Stay on the lives, like listen to the podcast. All of the links are on the, on in the link in my bio. So definitely check all of those things out. Okay.

Obi says hi Anwar. How come guys match with me on the apps but won't actually talk? Girl.

A lot of guys will just say yes to everyone and then like will chronologically go through like women.

Based on who reaches out to them first. Okay.

So what I've learned is that like you will matt, the people that you match with, you'll probably get a response rate of about a third. So let's say you match with three guys. One of them you might have a conversation with. That's the app. App T Girl.

Alyssa said I was not allowed to date until after college. That's the case for so many, you know, women of color, black women. And it sucks. And I, I, I feel, you know, I think it just, it's horrible.

Dragon's Breath. Any apps worth worth it at the moment? I'm not girl. I ran some of my numbers and I was telling my clients this earlier this morning. The dates from the apps are down roughly 30%. So I am working with my clients now to reallocate how we are going to be moving forward over the next two to three months until the apps come back to where they need to be. Yeah.

Let me see what's going on.

Hey, Rose. Sharon Ann. Mo dulce, Lexus. Ms. Marley.

Kyrie Said, hey. Missed our meeting yesterday. We are scheduled for Wednesday. My team should have reached out to you beforehand to let you know.

That we wanted to reschedule. So if you didn't get that, maybe you went to spam. But apologies for the confusion.

Kayla said, how long is too long to be pen pals on the apps? More than one week. Dulce. Thank you so much for the rose, girl.

Dom D said, we love you. Thank you. Girl I need all the love in the world, honey. Because they really trying to come for your boy now. Honey. I talked about the black man, then I talked about attractiveness levels. Then I talked about Nigerians. Honey. I think I'm just flying too close to the sun, honey. And they girl, I don't know what they trying to do, girl, but I need all the love. I need all the protection, everything, honey. But I thank you so much for the love. Veronica said, hello, Love your videos. Thank you, Sydney. Thank you so much for the Six Roses. Appreciate it.

JK said, what do you think about sugar daddies? So I'm not someone that helps people get with sugar daddies. That's. I feel like more like a transactional relationship. You might want to go to the Sprinkle Sprinkle lady for that. I don't really do transactional relationships. I'm about love, connections and relationships. So we're do I think about sugar daddies? I think that you should be your own sugar daddy. I think that you should be treating yourself every week. And if you're not doing that, then there's a problem. Yeah. Answered. Are you an nyc? I am not, but I come to NYC often. Dinah said, I feel personally attacked. It's my bedtime. Oh, go, go, go to bed, girl. Go to bed.

Britney said, let me grab my cabernet. I know that's right, girl. Ty said, you look good in green. In that green. Thank you, girl. I appreciate it.

Janae said, I finally decided to give my brother's BFF a chance. Have a date this week and wish me luck. Good luck, girl. Good luck. Stay cozy. Said, love your content. I'm married, but still love to listen. Thank you, girl. I appreciate that. Sydney said, advice for shy girl Black girls in college. Should I just date for experience? Yes, girl.

What you think you dating for? For life in college, honey. Anyone that is 25 and older, let these college girls know that whoever you meet in college, you will, you will not be with. Girl, you're not even gonna be in the same job in your first, your first job after college. What makes you think that the guy that you meet in college you're gonna be with for the rest of your life? No, shade.

I'm just, I. I want us to manage expectations here. Yeah. You're going to be in that first job for two to three years, max. You're going to be in that relationship, that first one after college, for two to three years. And that's Max. Max.

Okay, let me see what y' all are talking about. Valencia said, I've been out of the dating world by choice, but you're slowly opening me back up to it. Maybe. All right, girl, take your time. Take your time. No rush. No rush. Harmony said, I always look forward to you and your vibes. Thank you, girl. I appreciate that.

Taco Bella said, went on a Date with a Sri Lankan doctor. I don't think he was into me. I'm tired of dating.

Why? There are going to be people that are like that you're going to make a connection with and they're going to be people that you. You aren't. That's part of dating. Yeah.

Book books on nails says you know you that when you cause all the conversation. Fairy godbrother. Thank you, girl. Thank you. I appreciate that. Baby. That's it. I love how you say yeah. I think it's just the valley girl in me. Yeah.

Kayla said, what's the tea on Australia Men. I don't really like them. I think that they're low key, high key, racist and I don't really think that they're checking for black girls. So that's why you don't ever hear me talk about Australia.

But prove me wrong. Girl. Girl. They're shady to, you know the natives there. Girl. I don't like it.

Mia said girl called when I was with him, he drove from two states. Now he needs space. Yeah. Cuz he's embarrassed and he got caught that he was, you know, doing X, Y and Z. Give him his space, girl. And date two or three other men and don't look back, girl. Your future person will never need space from you.

Yeah.

Tom and Jazzy said, I'm moving back in a month. Should I start to get back on the apps now or wait until I touch down? I would say give yourself like one to two weeks before moving there to get on the apps. Brown skin lady said, how long and how many meetups should I wait for my long distance boo to make it official? He's also job hunting after relocating back to the US after living abroad.

I would not want to go official with someone that is unemployed and I would recommend that you do the same. Yeah. Wait till he gets a job. Don't be in a rush, girl.

Beautiful reflection said, you're so cute when you blush in a brotherly fashion. Thank you, girl. But you still can't have me. I'm taken.

Yeah. Mousing around. Said, is there a time frame for when the first date should happen? Girl, the first week. First week, first week, first week. He will know.

Yeah.

Pjt, when do we cut the roster? Is it whoever asked for? Well, generally you should be dating at least three guys at the same time. I call it Olympic dating. Gold, silver and bronze men you should have Right. When gold goes beyond and you've had a significant amount of dates and in my program what we do is we do this analysis based on your deeper relationship needs after going through the get your guy dating process. And then that's how we make the determination about whether to get exclusive with a guy or not. Yeah.

Kyrie said, won't commit, but ask me for money. A man ever asks you for money, run as fast as you can in the opposite direction. Okay.

Simona said, I left a three year relationship because he wasn't ready for marriage. He's 52, I'm 35.

Girls, ladies, two years max. If it does not happening in two years, he doesn't want it. He didn't want it or he's not ready. And we got to accept that.

Tai said, what's the tea on guys that are teachers, they make great fathers. Now, I said teachers, not professors. Don't get with professors, girl. They always want to be right and they think they're always right because they've had their head in the books for 20, 30 years, honey, but don't have any social skills. Yeah, teachers are often very nurturing. Right. And here's the thing. I think sometimes people have bad experience with teachers because they've been with the mean and strict teachers. I want you to get with the teachers that everyone loves. You know who those are, right?

Okay, let me see what y' all are talking about. Jehovah thickness. Love the name, by the way. Girl, just don't come to my door, honey. I swear the ones with the small p got the best moves. Yes. Girl. Well, they, they have to.

What are they. What, what else are they gonna do? Girl, they, they gotta compensate for something.

Akira said. Very true. My average guy was way better than the bigger guy. A hundred percent. One hundred percent. I was gonna do a video about this, but I didn't want to. Girl, I've been getting so much smoke, girl, I needed, I needed to water it down, girl. But the gag is like size matters. Size matters. And not just the guy size, but like the women's size as well. One of the things that I've learned, because, you know, she's a researcher, you know, she, she, she wants the data, the numbers. The gag is now, is it just us family?

Is it just us family in here? Honey? Girl, the gag is that the black girls.

The tightest, the white girls have the longest, and the Hispanic girls have the biggest circumference girls. So it's not just his size, it's your size too. I think some people think that because black men are so well endowed that the white, that the black girls are going to be, you know, wider, a wider Vajayjay. And that's not necessarily the case. The research says that y' all got the tightest honey. Come through. Come through with it, girl. Come through with it. So size matters on both. Both ends, honey.

Anyway, let me see what y' all are talking about.

Life with Casey said hello. And I love your lies. Your advice is chef's kiss. Thank you, Girl. Brittany. Amber said just poking around. Not just poking around, girl.

Kaya or Kia said, are Russian men packing.

The Russians that I have had were not. But maybe that was just how I chose them, honey. You know, I was playing Russian roulette, and I didn't get killed like I wanted to, if you know what I mean.

Let me see what the gag is, Girl.

Oh, my God. Y' all are gagging me, Girl. Why did I read some girl set? It's tight over here. Okay. All right, Ms. Chelsea. Girl. We didn't ask for all that, honey. Ms. Tiffany said her Kegels. Girl.

Purple bag said I almost screamed on the train. Why? Why? Girl, y' all should have known this already. Doesn't take a gay guy to tell you. I hope not.

I hope not that y' all haven't looked down there. Not Charlotte from Sex and the City. Who needs a marriage? Who needs to look down here? Honey.

Not that. Not that.

Yes. Girl.

Precious said. What about dating male nurses?

Slippery slope, Girl. I think just being a nurse is crazy. Y' all are basically doctors. No shade. And.

Yeah, I think I haven't heard a lot of great relationships with male nurses. But, like, most of them are gay anyway. Girl.

And tick tock. I think I can say that because I'm gay. But also, most of them are gay.

So don't cut this live off. Okay?

Simone said, Bumble for Boston is dry. AF for black women. Yeah. The apps are not apping, girl. It's. It's like every year since the pandemic, it's gone down, down, down, down. It's even affected my. My results. My results were bomb. Another less bomb. Another less bomb. Less bomb. Because I've been relying on the apps in my program. So we're gonna have. We're rejiggering that.

PJT Said give us tea on the Egyptian men. They're checking for the black girls, honey. They're checking for the black girls. I will say that. And I will say that they will have you walking like an Egyptian, if you know what I mean, honey. If you know what I mean. Jelly bean.

Bakati said or bhakti said. Advice on person of color. High Schoolers dating for the first time. Girl, why are you on this live? Girl, go to Snapchat, girl. Girl, get into some AP classes. Girl, don't come into my life.

I don't want you thinking about boys. Have fun. Chat with them. Girl, get in. Girl, you should be doing homework right now in an honors or AP class. I want want fives on your AP scores, okay?

Period.

Sweet. Melissa RN said. What do you think about Turkish men, Anwar? I think that they are. I think they are addicted to black women. I also think that they're horn dogs. The research says that they they most sexual partners of any nationality on average 14. Like if you look at America like the average sexual partners for a guy is like five or six. Yeah. So it's like double time.

Tiffany said, nobody's game is stronger than a married man. That's how he got married, girl. No shade. So Parson said, we love you. Onward. Thank you, girl. Ashley said, we'll write at dawn behind you. Onward. Thank you, girl. I appreciate that. Bessie. Thank you so much for the rose. Girl.

I had to give the tea on the vajayjay sizes, girl, because honey, these white women have tall vajayjays. Tall.

Anyway.

Sarah Parsley said, omg, I'm white longest. Yeah. Girl, you packing.

Purple bag Said, I know you lie. I'm not lying, girl. It's the research, girl. I can't lie on the research. Hey, hey.

Tea Saucy said the wet is too. Now I. I personally don't know nothing about that, girl. Girl, I know nothing about that. So.

Anyway.

Charlotte said, class is in session. Girl, I just try to share. I try to share what I know, right? And the girls can take it or not take it. It's up to them, honey.

The only. Nate said, what about mechanics? Well, here's what I know. Here's what you need to do. You know how they go under the car and then they're like doing all that stuff and working it out? That's. You got to. You got to make sure he's going under you and doing that work on you, girl. That's how the mechanics will make it happen and fix whatever is broken down there.

Honey, the girls are saying that they're tight in here. I know that's right, honey. It's a gag for me, honey. Kimberly said, love that for us, girl. And. And anyone that you're with, girl, they're loving it too. They're loving it too. Beautiful said, tight and right. Mm.

Chrissy said, girl, we've been knew that, girl. Apparently some of them didn't, honey. Some of them didn't.

Akiki said, where are your resources so I can follow up? Girl, please. Nicole said, girl, I had to research it. Not personally, girl. Third party.

Nicole said, he went through my insta while I was sleeping but didn't delete the evidence. Been dating for two months. Okay, so you need to have a conversation with him. That feels like a violation.

Yeah.

Brandy said, we knew that. That's why they fantasizing about us. Okay, girl, wait. One girl said, wait. This is life changing. Happy Black History Month, girl.

Jessica said, top shelf, kitty honey. Tyla said, so glad I follow you.

Honey. We get to have fun sometimes. All of this dating is so heavy and it's so annoying, girl.

Happy Black History Month. You got a tight vajayjay and a tight punani. Girl, you're the best.

You win.

Asian girls are second tightest. Girl, I see user772 asking about the Asian girl second tightest. Honey.

Yeah.

Oh my gosh.

Yeah. I'm like, sometimes shit gets so fucking heavy and serious in the dating. Girl. I just want to talk about boys and D.

Girls gotta eat. Like what.

Bambi said, I need some references. Girl, this is not a fucking thesis. I'm not proving my PhD to you, girl.

I'm not referencing anything in my essay.

All right, Ashley Ashlyn set your lives have me cracking up good girl. We get to have fun. Life is so serious.

Kiwana said, that's why they meaning white Love the large black men, girl I guess it's a perfect fit, girl. I don't know. I don't know, girl. I don't know. Brandy said, we definitely got that waterfall, girl. Not the waterfall, girl. TLC said don't go chasing waterfalls, girl. Maybe they were talking about y'. All. No shade, no shade.

And now let's say what about tech guys, girl? Yes. Yes to tech, girl.

Yes to tech. Honey.

Susie said, you make the lives way too late. Could you do them earlier? No, girl, no, girl, you need to extend your your bedtime. Girl, I'm doing my lives when my kids go to bed. Now if you are going to the same, you're going to bed the same time my kids going to bed. I can't do anything about that. I really can't.

Nikia said, I want to lose weight, but my man wants me the way I am. Should I lose weight? I think that you should do whatever the hell you want to do. Yeah.

That'S what I think.

Jaleesa said, where do we find the tech men? Is the Question. Girl, go to the Genius bar.

Girl, go to Best Buy.

For those it boys, honey or Silicon Valley. Taiwan has said I cannot with Anwar tonight. Why not? Girl?

Shayla said, I need this to be on the pod, girl. I can't be talking all this mess on my international podcast. Girl.

Faithfully, Misa, you go live while I'm at the gym. So be it, honey. So be it.

Jvxoxo said, as a Pilates princess, core strength equals pelvic floor strength. So if you're not right and tight already, then that can help. I know that's right, girl.

Intense DJ said. Side note, your post regarding black girls not dating because of parents restrictions spoke to my whole life. Thank you for seeing me, girl. Of course.

Of course.

Rosemary and Y says five to six sexual partners for a guy over the course of their lifetime on average. I want you all to understand something. The majority of men are getting no play. No play. So just think about it. When you're like on the apps, you swipe and left on 90, 95% of those guys. If you're swiping left on them, most other women are swiping left on them too. Only about 5 or 10% are getting the most play on the apps. Those are the guys that are having, you know, 50, 60, 100 partners. Most of the other guys, their biggest partner is their right hand. No shade, girl.

That's the T. So don't be surprised by the average of like five or six partners. Some of them might have eight.

But hand partners? Thousands, girl. Thousands. Ricasso said, Amworth is cutting up tonight. Am I.

Am I cutting up or am I slipping and sliding?

Honey, not. I chose to have a C section to keep mine tight, girl. Not. Not the C to keep the eye.

Oh, Lord.

Let me see what y' all are talking about. Bias said, I'm dating a senior accountant for our tech firm, but I hate the way he dresses. What do I do? Okay, so if he's treating you well, here's what you do. Once you get into a relationship with him on his birthday, start getting him clothes because he's going to start wearing the clothes that you get him. And girl, after a year, his whole wardrobe is going to be your wardrobe that you've given him. Long game, girl. Long game. The way that he dresses doesn't matter when it comes to a relationship. It doesn't correlate with a successful relationship outcome. Yeah.

Lobo said this info is on medical sites, y'. All. He's right. You think I'm lying to you? Why would I be talking about this stuff if it wasn't true?

Oh, my.

Okay, let me see what y' all are talking about.

What do I think about long distance? I love it. If there's consistency in communication. Yeah.

If there is. If he is coming to see you within a month's time. That's what I'm looking for. T. Saucy. Has Anwar got that rich man laugh? Do I? Honey. Given Scrooge McDuck. Honey.

Harmony said, happy Black History Month is wild.

Tada.

And Nala said, so Hispanic has the widest. Explains a lot. Well, you know, these Hispanic men do have very thick and wide. You know what. So it kind of makes sense. Growl.

Oh, my gosh.