Anwar White reframes dating as a race where you stand at the finish line and potential partners compete for your attention. You don't need to prove yourself to be loved. Let the person who consistently pursues you win the prize: you.
Hey, girl. If you are single and dating, I.
Want you to listen to this because this is a reframe that I give all of my clients that changes the.
Total way that they think about dating. So many of us are conditioned and programmed to try to prove ourselves to be loved. And we learned that when we were trying to get good grades and we got attention and validation, or we played sports well, or we did things around the house. And so in our minds and our hearts and our bodies, we think we have to do things to actually be loved. You don't. You get to just be your full, authentic, lovely self. And one of the reframes that I want to share with you is that I want you to think about dating as a race. And you're at the end of the finish line, and all of these guys are racing to get to you. If a guy stops and stops his contact with you, he stops his chances of winning the race. And the prize is you. And the guy who is going to get through to you and do everything.
That he needs to do to get to you is the winner.
I hope this helps you out.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
