Short YouTube monologue advising that receiving pet names early in a relationship is a red flag and a tactic of love-bombing; the speaker warns that premature pet names create a false sense of intimacy and are not genuine love.
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So what do love Bombers do that I think that you should be super wary of? I think that if you meet a man and he is starting to give you pet names immediately, it's a red flag. It's part of the love. It's part of the love bombing. And I say that because his attempt, when he gives you a pet name, he's trying to actually skip the line and get to your heart immediately. Instead of actually trying to get to know you, he's creating this false sense of comfortability so that you already feel like, well, he's already given me a pet name. He must love me, right? Bro, I can say anything I want in an interview to try to get a job. It doesn't mean that I'm actually skilled to get the job, right? And so I want us to be understanding that, like, pet names immediately is a red flag. And I don't want you to think that that's love, because that's not.