Dating Success as a Plain Jane! #datingadvice #datingtips #datingcoach #singleblackfemale

One can pull a white millionaire like a slim black woman with a bad wig. Omg this is so true. And it's not just white millionaires. It's actually most guys. When you are just plain Jane regular degular out errands at Target and what you would wear regularly, you're gonna be approached more. Why? Because you're not putting on airs. And so it's gonna show a guy that like you accept yourself as you are and so you'll probably accept him as he is. That's why he's going to approach you and talk to you and engage with you. And this is especially true for black women and non black men. So I just want to let you know that it is okay. You don't have to be dolled up to the nine every time you go outside. You get to just be comfortable and be your full authentic self. Here's what I want you to know. If he can actually love you and be into you in your Plain Jane Degular phase, he doesn't deserve you while you're all dolled up. Let me know in the comments if you get approached more when you are completely in your plain Jane phase.