A short YouTube monologue by dating coach Anwar White explaining the concept of “dating batching,” a strategy for managing multiple romantic prospects simultaneously by batching communication and scheduling, pacing attention (e.g., 33% each) until men earn more of one’s time, and setting designated texting and dating times to maintain control of one’s dating life. The piece targets women of color and offers pragmatic tactical rules (Olympic ranking: gold/silver/bronze; batch responses; designate date evenings).
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Hey, girl, have you ever heard of dating batching? If not, I'm going to tell you all about it. But before I do that, I want to let you know. My name is Anwar White. I am a dating coach for women of color, black and brown women, and I am here to help you level up in dating. Dating batching is all about actually managing how to date multiple men at the same time. Because I hear all the time, oh, girl, I can't do it. It's too much. It's overwhelming. Everyone's telling you to date multiple men, but no one's telling you actually how to do it. So I'm going to give you a little bit of tea to make sure that you know how to do, because this is about dating with strategy. Dating batching is all about actually batching your dates. I always say you have to Olympic date. You have to have a gold medalist, a silver medalist, and a bronze medalist. How do you do this? How do you manage this? Well, first, we can't give 100% to each and every one of these guys or it will feel overwhelming and it'll feel like you're giving 300% instead of 100%. You need to give like 33% to each one of these guys until they prove themselves and actually require and earn more of your energy and attention. So dating batching in the morning, when they're giving you those lame good morning texts, girl, respond to all of them at the same time. Yeah. So even if he messages you at 8am and another person messages you at 8:45, we're going to respond to both of them at 9 in the evening time. We're only going to text at a certain time and everybody's going to text and chat with you. Then love and dating have to be at your convenience, not theirs. So we batch the times in which we're going to be communicating with them. And we also designate certain evenings for dates. You set the pace of your dating life. We can't follow whatever a guy wants to do. That's not how we're going to do it in 2023. Let me know if you are ready to date multiple men. An Olympic date, ladies, because that's how you're going to get your guy and do it in the most effective and efficient way possible.
