This content was created by Anwar White. This content was uploaded by Anwar White. This is a YouTube video titled '#datingadvice #datingtips #feminineenergy #femininityforblackwomen #blackfemininity #blackgirldating' created on October 10, 2023. It features a monologue providing dating advice, encouraging women to actively create their love life rather than waiting for it to happen, and offering coaching services.
Last weekend my friend asked me, if you're not on dating apps and you're not meeting people in person, then how do you expect to get in a relationship? And that's a really good question.
It's a great question.
Here's what I know. I know that most of the ladies out there are waiting for the Amazon prime guy to deliver a guy or for some guy to sneak into their house or to come on Zoom when they're working from home or girl. It doesn't work out that way. Most women are waiting for love instead of creating their love life. And I want to empower you to create your love life. Because here's the thing, if you were looking for a job, what would you do? You would network. You would tell people, hey, hook me up, right AKA ask your friends to get you on dates. You would go to networking events. You would which means you would be outside, you would be talking to individual, making connections. You would update your resume, aka your online dating profile. You would be on LinkedIn aka the apps trying to find a connection or, you know, a good job or a good guy. You would also go on informational or real interviews to see if you are gonna find your company or your guy. We don't just stay at home. Here's what I know. Most women are kind of sitting on the bench when it comes to dating because either they don't know how to date or they want to keep their peace. If you don't know how to date, get a coach, get a mentor like moi, or keep on learning, reading, listening to podcasts, staying on TikTok or IG and learning until you feel ready. Number two, if you want to keep your peace, realize that you not dating is not going to keep your peace. Because if there's unrulyness up in there, it's going to come out in dating and it's going to come out in your relationship. Dating is an opportunity to work through all of your ish so that when you get into the relationship, you don't have all of your trauma and triggers creating disconnection. So there's a reason why we date as well that can help you in your relationships. Now if you want to learn how to do all of this, definitely book a call with me, but let me know in the comments. Are you waiting for love or are you creating it?
