Short YouTube transcript in which dating coach Anwar White (serving Black and Brown women) advises women to avoid sex until a relationship is exclusive, arguing physical intimacy chemically bonds women and can reduce men's bonding (vasopressin), leading to distancing or ghosting. The message combines cautionary biological claims with direct, colloquial admonitions.
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Always remember Cinderella removed one shoe and found love. And half of y' all removed all of your clothes and you are still single. Have a great day today.
Hey girl. So y' all are grown ass women and you can do whatever the hell you want to do with your bodies. But as a dating coach. I've been a dating coach for 13 years. I serve black and brown women. I always recommend that they don't have S E X until they're in an exclusive relationship. Why do I say this? Well, one, because you will chemically bond to a guy that you are intimate with. And what happens? And you've seen this before, your friend, your sister, your cousin, they're completely dematized and it messes with their whole critical reasoning skills and they're not able to see it. And I don't want that for you. Okay? The. The other thing that I think is really important when you're thinking about being intimate with a guy or not is that ultimately some women think that if I'm intimate with him, he will like me. That couldn't be further from the truth. Actually, what happens is when you're intimate with a guy, his bonding hormone, his vasopressin will decrease, which means that he will actually not feel as close to you and he will want to step away. That's why so many men ghost after you're intimate with them. So I would recommend to wait until exclusivity.
