Anwar White, a dating coach for Black and Brown women, advises viewers to avoid dating men in certain high-authority professions (military, police, firefighters, lawyers, surgeons, pilots), arguing these jobs can foster "God complexes" and problematic power dynamics at home. She cites the 1971 Stanford Prison Experiment as psychological evidence for how assigned power can change behavior. The clip ends with a prompt for viewers to share experiences in the comments.
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Hey, girl. So I did a video about who's checking for plasticized women. And I talked about how military men are, but that you should definitely avoid them. And I got a lot of comments like, why are we talking about military men? And why do we need to avoid them? So I'm going to give you the tea. Now, I don't have anything against military men. They are serving our country, honey, but they might not be serving you, and I want to tell you why. Now, for those of you that don't know me, my name is Anwar White. I'm a dating coach for black and brown women. And we want to stay away from the military men. We want to stay away from the police officers and firefighters. We want to. We want to stay away from the lawyers, the surgeons and the pilots. I'm going to tell you why these men are going to have God complexes, because they are literally. They have the lives of people in their hands all day, every day. And that will translate into how they think about themselves when they are at home with you. Now, if you all have never heard of this, I want to talk about this experiment called the Stage Stanford Prison Experiment that happened in 1971. They basically took 24 random undergrads, half prisoners, half guards. And they said, let's see what happens. And you know what happened. The guards got really abusive, treated the prisoners horribly. The prisoners were depressed and were anxious. So because the guards were put into positions of power, they were acting in a way that they wouldn't normally act, and that would translate into other parts of their lives as well. This is why you want to avoid these sorts of professions. Now, let me know in the comments if you've had experience with men in these professions and tell me what happened, girl.
