Anwar White argues not all men cheat, but estimates 50 to 70% do, often due to depression, unemployment, or feeling emasculated when their partner earns more. He advises higher-earning Black and brown women to expand their dating pool, noting only 6% of Black men earn six figures versus 13% of other men.
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Kara said, do all men cheat? I don't think all men cheat, but I would say, you know.
It's a good 50 to 70%. And a lot of men will cheat for a variety of different reasons, right? If they're like depressed, if they are unemployed or uneducated or underemployed, they will cheat. If you're doing better than them, if you make more than them, they will cheat.
Because they're trying to, they feel emasculated. That's why you should never be with somebody that you make. If they don't make 80% of what you make or more, it's not gonna work. And if you're one of the girls that makes six figures, he's gotta make six, six figures as well.
That's just it. So when you hear me, especially for my six figure black girls and brown girls, when you hear me say, I need you to date everybody, that's why. Why? Because only 6% of black men make six figures or more versus 13% of other men.
The more, the more, the more men that you are leaving yourselves open to, the more you will find your person. And that's really what I'm here to do. I am pro black woman love. I'm not pro black love. I want y' all to find whoever your person is, I don't care who it is. As Dr. Umar said. What did he say? He doesn't care if it's ice. Well, he does care, but I don't care if it's ice, spice.
Sand. And he said something else, it was very, very crazy. But girl, white, black, Puerto Rican or Haitian, I don't care. Well, I do care if it's Haitian.