A short YouTube monologue by Anwar White contrasting how "broke" men and "rich" men approach relationships: broke men sell a dream and give emotional heart, while rich men offer material experiences that can be mistaken for emotional investment. The speaker warns that paying for experiences doesn't equal emotional availability and advises prioritizing emotional support when choosing partners.
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Let me see what else you got going on, honey. Does broke men.
Rich men, run same game till the mask slips? No, they don't run the same game because the broke man is all about dreams.
He's. He's selling you a dream girl, right? It's your decision about whether you are going to believe the dream or not. The rich man is actually trying to inundate you with physical things and experiences.
He's. He's also kind of giving you a dream, but it's more physically there, right? Oh, let's fly to Miami this weekend and do X, Y and Z.
He's giving you the experience, but the difference, and one of the things that you have to figure out, and this is the tricky part, is that the broke man, he'll give you a lot of heart.
So you'll believe the dream too much. The rich man oftentimes won't give you heart, but. But you might get. You might fall in love with the experience. And that might trick you into thinking that he actually has heart. It takes no heart to pay for things. All it takes is a card.
Paying for things is not emotional for men. I want you to understand that because a lot of women think that it's like an emotional decision.
Okay?
It really isn't. That's why I always tell the ladies, just because you get flew out doesn't mean a Damn thing.
Takes 5 minutes to get you here.
Okay?
So at the end of the day, it's all game. Don't fall for it. Because the heart is the thing that matters now. Am I saying I want you to be with somebody that you can't provide? No. What I'm saying is most of you all are doing well for yourselves. So what you need is actual most, the emotional support.
And most of these men don't have it. That's why most of these men are not relationship ready, okay?
