Anwar White recommends a phone or video call before meeting someone in person, especially if you're over 40. Some men use AI to write messages or post old photos, so a video call verifies they're real. He emphasizes Black women should be careful about who gets their energy.
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April 12, 2025
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Erica said. Erica Ann said. Do you recommend a phone date before a first date? Oh, my God. Yeah, girl. You never want to go on a first date with somebody and you don't even know if you like them.
Sometimes you go on a phone date and you realize, oh, this person doesn't have a personality.
That this man has been using chat GPT to text you.
And you think he's suave. No, girl, Claude, AI is suave, not him.
Okay. Yeah, honey. Lame. GPT.
You think I'm lying? These men are. Girl, you chatting with AI, girl. No shade.
Because none of these guys have game, girl.
So please understand.
You want to have a phone date. Make sure it's real. Make sure the personality is real. Honey.
Yeah.
You think I'm lying? I'm being serious. There are full on apps where guys are using it and you thinking that he's just so witty.
No, girl, that AI went through 300,000 permutations to figure out the perfect thing to say to you.
Someone said the way I use ChatGPT to text people back. Vanessa, girl, don't do that. Don't do that.
Don't do it, girl. Yes, P said I felt catfish when I met him in person. I'm sure you did. That's why we need a phone date with these mofos now, girl. Yeah. And if you are 40 plus, it better be a video date. It better be a video date. Because you know what these old men are doing? Honey, Honey, they are showing you pictures from 1995.
You think they look good for the age, girl. And then you go out on a date with them and they're a gremlin.
They're looking like those weird aliens from Harry Potter.
It's weird. Don't do it.
Get on that video day. Yeah, honey, the hobbits. Honey, you know I'm not a nerd like that. You know I don't know anything about that mess, girl. I'm too cool for that shit.
Girl. These old ass men, girl.
Always a video date.
Always a video date.
Okay.
I hope y' all are listening to me. This is not Anwar trying to be funny. This is Anwar trying to save you from some men that are trying to suck the youth out of you.
And if you're a black woman, please know that your DNA is everlasting. It is the most powerful DNA to have on this earth. And these men will want it.
Illuminati.
So you have to be weary of who you give your energy to.
