Dating coach Anwar White explains why she doesn't set up dates for clients. Instead, she focuses on helping women become their own matchmakers through personal growth and healing.
Tia said. How. How do you set us up on dates?
Excuse me, I'm allergic to that kind of work.
I don't set women up on dates. That's a matchmaker. I'm definitely not a matchmaker, and that's not real shade to any matchmakers. But I do know for black and brown women, matchmakers do not work.
And the experience I have is because a lot of women that use matchmakers come to me because it doesn't work for them. In my experience, matchmakers have a 5% success rate, and that's for the white girls. So you can minus 10x that maybe to have your success rate. So I don't set women up on dates. What I do as a dating coach is I help women become their own matchmakers. I help them heal themselves. I help them date with strategies so that they can learn how to pick not based on their trauma, but based on their highest version of themselves, based on their healed self. I help them heal. I help them get clarity on what they want and what they need. I help them better understand their masculine and feminine energy. I help them understand their inner child wounds. I help them level up their confidence. I help them learn how to set boundaries and have the emotional confidence to be vulnerable. These are the sorts of things that I help my clients with. Okay. But I don't set them up.
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