A short YouTube monologue (Anwar White, uploaded March 14, 2024) answering whether women with children—specifically a woman with four children—can find romantic love again. The speaker affirms they can ("100%"), emphasizes that parents already embody love through their children, urges appreciation of existing love, notes contemporary fertility challenges, and defines falling in love as discovering one’s own capacity to love.
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Brandi said, do you think a woman with four children will find love again? 100%. But please understand this. You never lost it. You literally are the epitome of love. If you have four children. Children are such a beautiful gift. And please understand, there's a. There are a ton of women that are having fertility issues right now. So quiet as it's kept. Who knows in 10 or 20 years if people will even be able to have four children? Please understand that. Let your children remind you that you have love surrounding you each and every day and center yourself in that. Yeah. Don't denigrate the love that you already have in your life, because it won't help you find new and different love that you're searching for. Yeah. And I say that as a parent of three, that literally, like, let that love of your children open your heart up in such a significant way. So all of the yelling and the screaming and the play that they do, right. All of the. The ways in which you get to show all of your love, bask in that. That's what I think the beautiful thing about children are. And what I think love is, which is love for me, is being in relationship with someone and seeing and. And experiencing your own capacity of love for another person. That is how we fall in love with our. With another person. You fall in love with another person by falling in love with the capacity that you have for love.
