Anwar White examines how men actually swipe on dating apps. Do they have a strategy, or is it mostly mindless? The video explores rejection patterns and what men's swiping reveals about how they approach these platforms.
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Peyton said, are men swiping right on everyone or are they swiping intentionally? I don't think that they're swiping on everyone, but I think that they're swiping on, let's say 80%.
Yeah, most, many of them are. And then they're waiting for people to match with them and like them back before they start to engage. And the reason why they do this is because men on dating apps are getting rejected 90% of the time.
Which is something that I think a lot of people don't actually know. Whereas women are getting quote unquote, rejected like 30% of the time.
So they're actually a lot of people, a lot of specifically women think, oh my God, they're so lazy on the date, when in reality they're actually doing much more work than you think and having many more conversations, but they're just getting rejected all of the time.
And the reason that is is because the majority of women are just liking like 10, 10 to 20% of the profiles out there.
And not really engaging with other, other men. So there's like this imbalance going on.
And the, the men that the most of the women are engaging with on the apps.
They'Re. They have the pick of the litter.
Right? And so they don't have to chase you.
Because they have 8, 800 women that are in their chats.
So that's why when you hear me and I say go for the mid guy, I mean it.
Because mid guy maybe physically, but top on everything else.