Anwar White argues most men don't want to talk every night. Real interest shows up as consistent after-work calls and being the first person he tells about his day. Nightly calls and good-morning texts are weaker signals that might mean he wants attention, not commitment.
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Ashley said, do men want to talk every night? Most men. Most men don't want to talk every night. But if a guy is really into you, one of the things that I've noticed is that he'll want to talk to you after work. You'll want to be the first person that he tells his day about.
Right.
So when that happens, when you're Getting calls at 5:36pm that's when I'm like, when my clients get that, I was like, okay, y' all probably gonna be exclusive in the next couple of weeks.
Nighttime calls, good morning texts don't mean anything to me.
That doesn't mean anything. Generally, most of the guys that are calling you in the nighttime every night oftentimes are kind of using you for either attention or emotional support.
Right. You'll have to observe and notice the nature of the calls. Is he just talking about his life and what's going on with him, or is he asking you about your life and asking you supporting questions based on what you say?
Check that. Because a lot of girls are just be happy with a call from a guy and not realize that you've been literally playing Oprah or his therapist for each and every call that you're having.
