Anwar White explains how men test women with questions like "How long you been single?" or "Why are you single?" to probe for insecurity. He identifies tells like snarky responses, fidgeting, and over-explaining, then shows how to answer calmly instead: "I've been dating, but I just haven't found my person."
Someone said, do men test you? Yeah. Just like you test men. Right. So when. When men say.
So how long you been single? Or when they say.
Why are you single? Or when they say.
What happened in your last relationship?
They're testing you.
When men give you a compliment, they're testing you.
So when they ask those questions about your relationship history, they want to know, are you insecure about it? If you give some sort of snarky response or. Right. Or you're fidgeting and you're over explaining something, or you're trying to joke around about it.
He'S going to think you're crazy.
If you're a matter of fact about it, and you're like, yeah, I've been dating, but I just haven't found my person.