A short spoken monologue arguing you do not need to be 100% in feminine energy to attract a good man. The speaker critiques extreme ‘femininity’ dating advice, recommends a balance of masculine and feminine energies (roughly 40–60% each), and warns hyper-focus on physical appearance attracts low-quality or trophy-seeking men.
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Amber Cohen said, do you believe that you had to be in your hundred percent feminine energy to find a good man? No. And here's the thing this isn't about. I think there's a lot of like, especially male dating coaches are like, you got to be feminine, you got to be feminine. I'm not. That's not what I'm saying, personally. What I'm saying is that oftentimes we have like, we might be 70, 80% masculine and 20 or 30% feminine. And I know that that 40, 40 to 60% is like a good place to be for both of your energies so that you can find a guy that is similar so that there's an actual match. Right. So often when we're in our masculine.
We only are attracting two kinds of guys. One that's in their hyper masculine, AKA toxic masculine, trying to force you down into your feminine or.
Dominant, feminine, energetic man, that is that you're going to end up mothering because he's going to regress into a teenage boy. Yeah. So what I'm saying is that you don't have to be 100% in your feminine energy. And so all of these feminine dating coaches or femininity coaches that are telling you to put on, wear red and put on lipstick and do your hair a certain way, that shit doesn't matter. It doesn't matter. And actually, if you're hyper focused on that, you will attract men that are hyperfocused on the physicality, which are kind of the lowest level of men. You don't want that. Or men that want you as a trophy wife and not as a legitimate significant partner.
