Anwar White argues you don't need your life perfectly together to start dating. What matters is being healed from past relationships, not having everything figured out first.
And they said, hi, amore. Do you think people should get in order before dating? The biggest thing that I hear so often, oh, I gotta get my life together before I start dating. Girl, no shade, your life's never going to be together.
Because we're not perfect beings. It's never going to feel right. You kind of just have to do it just like, you know, a professional mentor will tell you you'll never be ready for the job until you actually do the job. And it's the same with dating and being in a relationship. And so the way that I think about this is not that you have to be in order. I just think you have to be healed from your last relationship. And if you're able to be healed, centered, calm, right. As it pertains to a last situationship, relationship, husband, what have you, then you're ready. But everything else, no. Girl, you don't gotta lose 20 pounds, girl. All those girls on my 600 pound life, they all have boyfriends. Girl, it's not about the weight. Yeah, as an example, okay.
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Dating Pitfalls of the Smart and Successful Woman - Get Your Guy Podcast S1 E2
