Rhonda Lynn says don't lose weight before dating. Test whether a potential partner will accept you through thick and thin, especially since pregnancy and life changes will shift your body anyway.
Rhonda Lynn, do you suggest losing weight before dating? Not at all. Not at all.
What I know is that if you think that a guy will be into you because you've lost 10, 20 or 30 pounds, that's not your guy.
Here's the thing, especially if you were thinking about having a family with a guy, you want to see if he is he is going to love you.
Thick and then honey through thick and thin. And especially because here's the thing, if you're gonna have children with this man, you're probably gonna gain a little bit of weight after that pregnancy anyway.
So you want to see if he's into it or not, if he's into you or if he's into your body. Most guys will be into your body whether you're bigger or not. And actually being like curvier will give you a sense because you'll hear directly from these guys more often than not.